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A thoughtful question, coach bebanovich. However, you are responsible for your players' conduct, and by yelling at the official, you are inciting your players.
When you are up by 20-something, why do you care that the foul is a common, intentional or flagrant, as long as some foul is called? A call that you disagree with is not a slap in the face. Some times good people make mistakes, and sometimes good people see things differently than you. An example of good sportsmanship at this point would make a better lesson for your players than showing up an official.
As you and others have pointed out, it would be better to address the official privately during a timeout, and ask for an explanation of the call. Even better would be to realize that you don't need a more severe punishment than was given. A team with a big lead should not be so concerned with every call. As a coach you should be more concerned with the example you are setting.
I deal with street kids like yours all the time, and I understand the challenges you face. For some, you may be the only male role model they interact with regularly. They will imitate you whether you want them to or not. If you are yelling at the official, they will be looking to side with you, and tensions will escalate. Next time, try saying "Good call, ref!" instead, and see if the tension is diffused. You may be surprised at how your players react.
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