[bigwhistle]

Josh,

Listen to the older official, smile, shake your head a lot, and wait for him to leave. Then consider what he said, as there may be a couple of things during his tirade that could help you down the road. Try to find these gems and apply them to your game. Discard the rest.

It seems that most officials think that they can teach others how to referee the game. That is why I tell young officials to watch the person who gives them advice, and see how they work the game. If they consistently do a good job, then it is probably worth your time to listen carefully and even attach yourself to their coat tails to help your career.

If, on the other hand, the know-it-all official can't referee dead, then place his comments to you in the appropriate container. Recycling is not always a good thing.