http://www.cobua.org/docs/GameDayMeeting.pdf
Here are the guidelines my local association uses.
The document at the link is more-or-less in the form of a checklist. Some of the items on the list are rather brief and lack much detail. However, everything on the list is covered in-depth at our association meetings and clinics.
It's a handy printout to have stashed in the equipment bag, especially if you're doing a game with an unfamiliar partner.
I imagine that it might serve to give you a few ideas about your own pre-game meetings.
[Edited by BretMan on Dec 16th, 2005 at 10:29 AM]