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Gang:
I am doing a little research for an upcoming article. You may have seen a preview of the debate "Big finger v. calm dismissal"
Without getting into my article too much, here is my very pointed view of this.
When it gets to the point that you need to toss a guy, don't be shy. Use the BIG FINGER and make sure everyone knows he is gone.
Doing so sends two messages.
1. YOU are in charge. Not the butthead who you just tossed.
2. More importantly, it sends the message to everyone else that certain behaviors will lead to the same fate.
Thoughts? Comments? When would a "calm ejection" be worthwhile (I can't remember ever doing it, so help me here!)
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