[U_of_I_Blue]

Dude-

I'm with diamond gal. Ease up. Take the criticism like a man. Step back and evaluate yourself and see if it's really something you need to work on. If it is, great, then do it. If not, then let it go and move on. There is no need to fire back at everything someone says negatively about you. When you fire back, you just stoop to their level and become one of them. I personally lose more respect for those that fire back at someone than the person who originally fired a statement.
It takes two to start a flamewar and no matter who starts it, you seem to be that second link more often than not. Ease up, have fun, learn to laugh at yourself or you're going to have a long life buddy.