It sounds like things were handled correctly. If the player and the official have a problem it is for them to deal with.
I go to a camp where the clinicians and assignor have no problem with "carry-over T's (in the next game)." Perhaps the official should consider issuing a "T" the next time the player in question gives him the slightest bit of disrespect on a call. The player will know the situation. If the do not want to "T," then the official could very well call things tight when this player is in the play. He soundsIt sounds like they have a history, so it is upto them to work it out, not you. If you do not have a history with this player, have a clean slate.
It sounds like your assignor would rather that these comments be directed at you or your partner rather than at an official on another floor.
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