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Originally posted by whiskers_ump
In truth, coaches probably get more grive than umpires. (I know some of you won"t
agree with this statement, umpires that is.)You, the coach have to please not only
your players, but the parents of these players. That in itself is usually a major
task. Like umpires, coaches make mistakes. Start the wrong pitcher, pinch hit at
the wrong time, don't attempt to sacrifice when situtation dictates, and many other things.
Grow a thick skin coach, and just do the things you think will work best. No one promised
any of us life would be easy or fair.
Good Luck.
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Been on both sides of the coin, whiskers, and I will be the first to agree with you there.
officialtony also makes a very good point, that is the critique of the fans, players, and coaches is not something of concern to the umpire. Those mentioned can in no way judge an umpires performance in an un-biased fashion. It is very nice to hear good comments from them after a tough game, as well as appreciated.
In the long run, I want MYSELF to say to MYSELF; You did a good job!
I am my own worst critic, or best critic as the case may be. I have yet to have a "perfect" game. Many have been close, but there is always something I should have done just a bit better.
My performance is judged based on me alone, (a partner's work can influence that also). A coach's performance is based usually on the final outcome and play of others!
Coach, It is never easy dealing with the abuse you get as a coach, or umpire. You just have to keep focused on the fact that you are making a difference, building character, doing something good. Those who are the "abusers" are the ones with the problem! The complainers and hecklers are always the minority of the whole. Remember that you are probably respected and held in esteem by 90% or better of your players, parents, and fans. Also the 10% would never attempt to take on the job you do.
Thanks also for coaching, cause without you we wouldn't have any games to call!