[JRutledge]

I would have asked him this question directly. "Are you questioning my integrity?" If his answer is yes, then I have no problem with an ejection. If he pauses and then apologizes, then he gets the message. I do not subscribe to the eject quick and often group. I think you should try to keep any HS and below level (head) coach in a game. I do not think it looks like you are the aggressor or not. I do think if things were going on for several innings, you need to do something early to stop it. Just like the coach approached you, you can approach the coach in passing as well. If the coach gets upset, walk away. If he follows you, then he just hung himself.

Also, youth coaches do not ever have a clue. They do not realize or have much knowledge what is acceptable. You have to draw the line in the sand and if they cross it that is their problem.

Peace