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Originally posted by RollTide
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Originally posted by ref18
, so I stop signed him, he then goes on to say, "you guys are aweful" so I whack him.
from what I'm reading into this, the coach has apparently not been pleased with either of you. He may not have said anything til this, but, just because a coach hasn't voiced his/her displeasure doesn't mean they've approved of our work.
Just my perception here, but, from reading your post here, as well as others over the past couple of months, you appear to be a young official that goes onto the court with an ego trip wanting to flaunt your authority.
Don't get me wrong, I know when we go onto the court we are supposed to be in control of the game. But, in officiating basketball, game and people management have almost become as (if not more) important as proper mechanics, judgment, etc.
In reading this forum, it appears there are a few officials that consider a coach commenting or complaining about a call/no-call as unsportsmanlike conduct worthy of being issued a technical foul. Folks, most of these coaches jobs are on the line dependant upon their team's success. Part of their job as a coach is to question why we did or didn't make any particular call. That IS within their legal parameters.
Now, before some of you bring up the 'where in the rule book does it say that a coach may question us' bit, I know what the rule book says concerning 'any bench personnel may not try to influence call', but, if we don't learn to use common sense here, our life as an official won't proceed very high up the ladder. If officiating middle school and lower level games is your ambition, then carry the "everyone should be privileged that I'm refereeing this game tonight' attitude to every game and see how far it will take ya.
Just my 2 cents
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Feel better?
Now step off your high-horse.
There is not an official on this forum that would not whack a coach for saying what the coach said to Ref18, and if you are saying you would not, than you are the reason we HAVE TO DO IT.
A little perspective, there is not a middle school coach in America who's job is on the line for not winning. Schools have to BEG teachers to coach in a lot of places.
It is not much different in high school. Sportsmanship is a POE in the NF. It is REQUIRED in many states, my state has a program that every school MUST comply if they want to have a sports program.
One last thought, what you don't enforce you promote.