I had an instance liekt this and at half-time I said, "Hey I am glad you came and got that call, what did you see from your side?" I believe that is a good place to start the discussion.
You give them instant gratification and then give them a chance to make them believe they are teaching you. People are more likely to divulge info. if they believe they are "teaching" or "helping" you. Meanwhile you will gain respect from that official and have more of a free reign to communicate how you wish.
AAR
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