[ChuckElias]

I don't do men's leagues (except when a friend is short of officials) for exactly that reason, Chris. You are expected to let the morons, I mean, crybabies, uh, pathetic wannabees, no no, players blow off steam at you. Knowing your tolerance level will probably not lessen the frequency of their outbursts.

So you can continue to do the league and just resign yourself to throwing a few T's every week, or you can avoid those leagues and let your thick-skinned former partner have all their respect.

Neither decision is wrong. It's just a matter of what you want deal with.