Flagarant? What, the ejection or the USC?
It sounds like you missed plenty of opportunities to let her watch from the parking lot but chose to pass on; then you allowed her to continue to the point where you couldn't wait to run her and had to look for something. You let yourself down by not managing your game.
Check out this article in
Referee Magazine it is a good read and may be applied to your situation:
http://www.referee.com/more/Samples/...e_4thtime.html
[Edited by Robmoz on Jul 29th, 2004 at 01:36 PM]