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Originally posted by w_sohl
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Originally posted by Nu1
I am not speaking about a specific age. And I agree that because one person holds certain characteristic traits or beliefs it does not mean those traits or beliefs are typical among that persons's "group," whether that group be age, gender, race, or whatever.
I do think that if you look at generations, it would be more likely that an older generation would have a higher percentage of individuals who hold racist or prejudiced beliefs, which has a lot to do with the society they grew up in, when compared to a younger generation. And I think it is more likely that if someone's pants are hanging off their hips, that person will be younger (and that is with all plumbers included). Isn't it true that biracial couples are accepted more today - not always, but more - than in past decades?
Someone who grew up in the 40's or 50's had to deal with race on a much different level than someone who grew up in the 70's or 80's. I believe that it is easier for teens growing up today to be more open and accepting of individuals based on race, when compared to growing up in past generations.
Now, because you don't agree with me does that mean you'll no longer provide me with much needed input and answers to my basketball questions? 
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Very well put...
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To handle this in a way that's less likely to offend, say it in terms of sub-culture. "It's more acceptable in such-and-such a sub-culture to speak your mind." "The so-and-so sub-culture attaches meanings to that word that you and I might not realize." "That gesture is much more offensive in the yada-yada sub-culture" Describe the difference in value-neutral terms, and use the expression, "sub-culture." This isn't covering up bias or prejudice. It's a way to talk about subtle differences in our society that may exist, but can be uncomfortable to examine.
You can also ASK, rather than TELL. "Do you find that some people cling to the culture of the 50's and have trouble letting go of the racial prejudices of that time?" "When you say that, do you get a negative response?" "Have you ever heard that word, and wondered if you heard something different from what the speaker was trying to say?" The question can't be too pointed, or it sounds manipulative, but it can gently lead, if you do it carefully.