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Originally posted by Carl Childress
It is not our job to promote our definition of civility. [/B]
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Carl:
You must be watching the Yankees too much lately, you're in a slump. That's 0 for 2 tonight.
I ABSOLUTELY is our job to "promote" our definition of civility. We do it every night and that is what is causing the problem. We each have our own definition of what should happen. Hell, you gave no less than 3 choices.
The problem occurs when you choose #3, keep him in the game and the next night I boot himout and he whines that, "Hey Carl didn't boot me out. At least he knew what he was doing. F***ing rookies!"
Gee Carl, your solution helped me a lot the next night. Not only did it create an argument, I have also been pegged as a dolt becasue the "Big Dog" did something different.
As leaders in an association, we need to lead by example. Why not stop giving the young guys multiple choices and give them a tool that will work and stop it from happening over and over.