I have been in your position. Several years ago I felt I was being passed for post-season assignments for lesser offficials. However, I let the hurt and jealousy eat me up for a time. It affected my game. So much so that my regular partner talked to me about splitting since I was not carrying my weight.
Since then I have switched to reffing each night with the purpose of enjoying myself, doing my best, and not worring about the consequences. My officiating has improved immensely along with my confidence and my post-season assignments. The last 2 years I have earned regional games in both boys and girls. Keep working hard and improving and better games and assignments will come your way.
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