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When I coached a combined 13-18 Dixie team last season, I gave all the parents a letter stating a number of things we expected which included this about officials:

"Remember that the umpires are part of the game. Don't overreact to their calls. They represent authority on the field. Teach your daughters to respect authority and to play by the rules. We will not tolerate arguing with officials from players or spectators."

I never had any real problems from the parents. I think some verbal disagreement with an occasional call is part of the game and isn't a problem. Foul language or a long tirade is never acceptable.