[bossref]

Everybody officiates for a different reason.
I started in 1973 as a fill-in for intramural college refs that didn't show up. Working frosh and JV became great learning experiences. Getting to HS varsity was a bigger challenge. I eventually moved up and did JC men and women and D2 and D1 women's.
All along the way I made mistakes and learned from most of them (I had awesome old-timers as mentors.
Now I just work rec stuff, but have nurtured an assignment "agency" that has grown into a nice year round business.
I'm proud of many that have come through.
You see them mature, learn, make lots of friends, and earn some money along the way.
I just wish that more would give their best efforts instead of being satisfied with mediocrity (even though they think that they're doing a good job)and pleased that they've made a few bucks.
Reffing can be so much fun if done right.
You can make some "friendships for a lifetime".
Officiating has been my life for over 25 years.
To all those who toil in obscurity with the old rec rats and the new youth teams, I say, "Give them their money's worth!" "Deal with whatever comes your way with dignity and common sense", and "enjoy the ride".