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Early in the season (mid Oct) i worked with our provincial / state educator in a junior college game. This official works DI, DII and NAIA, and if considered to be one of the best officials in Canada. He's a 30+ year vet and has worked around the world in PAN/AM games and Olympics. I'm a 27 year old guy with 10 years experience, Who's most high profile game has been the semi-final at a 'AA'Provincial/State tournament.
OK here' the situation
Visiting coach is continually complaining to both officials about our calls. Not only is he vocal, but he's continually pushing the limits of the coaching box. After reporting a easy call (two hands on the back of a post player with the ball)I made my way over to the coach to indicate the coaches box, and to answer his question about the call.
I quickly make my way back to the far end of the court to be the trail. Immediately my parnter make the exact same call on the exact same girl in the post...again the coach complains. I smile...
Play continues.. and toward the end of the half i have the exact same call on the same girl..Two arms on post player with the ball. He smiles..
While i'm reporting i see coach standing clearly outside his box, however he's just standing there saying nothing. I ask him to move back into the box and report the foul. I look and see that he's not moved back. He's just continues to stand there.
I turn away and proceeded to become the trail..."That's garbage" comes out from behind me. The whistle goes into my mouth and i bite down and for some reason looked toward my partner who is stairing right past me and at the coach. He shakes his head side to side and I let the whistle fall from my mouth.
Half-time...The scorekeeper ( who is a very new official) polietly asks my parnter ( she doesn't know who he is) why he's not enforcing the coaches box, she also indicates that she can hardly here us during our reporting procedures because of the visiting coach.
Second half..First call, by my partner...Coach complains and VERY QUICKLY get the stop sign. I see this.. very soon i have a back-court hand-checking call and the coach again is up. Before i can report..i here the extra whistle and see the famous sign. I report and then my parnter does. Now this is where it get interesting.....
My partner who had just given the 'T' tell me to go to center, i ask "Are you sure" he says "yes". Whom am i to argue. I hesitate and then go, he administrates the 'T' from the lead right next to the coach, who is still complaining.
After the free throws..i get the ball and am just about to start play again when i see the stop sign from my partner.
I smile and tell the inbounder to "watch this". My partner get right in the face of the coach and tells him that if he wants to remain in the gym he's got to sit down NOW, the coach indicates he's alloud to stand, NOT ANY MORE is all. I hear this from 50 feet away. My partner then proceed to walk him back to his chair. I get the ok signal and play resumes. Nothing is heard from the coach the remainder of the game.
After the game we talked at great lengths on what we could have done better. I thought that if i had given the first T when i wanted to, the game could have ended up better. He gave me the reason why he didn't think i should. I agreed with his points. I also expressed my surprise towards his actions towards the coach. He indicated that sometimes you have to do something drastic to deal with a situation.
Confidence is hard to build and harder to keep. I became weak when i needed to be strong. I hesitated when i shouldn't have. It shouldn't have matter who my partner was, if i thought that a 'T' should've been called i should've call it. I now know that after talking to my mentor, who just by chance talk to my partner who just happened to indicate that "may i was wrong in not letting Scott 'T' the coach". I smiled when i heard that.
Best of luck in the furture, stay calm, poliet and firm.
keep smiling
SH
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