When my daughter was born, I gave up playing basketball 3-4 nights a week and officiating 2-3 nights a week. I gave this up for 3yrs. I currently spend every minute i can with my family. I don't go out, i don't party. I do go to the YMCA with my daughter a lot. We do a lot of activities togather. I take them on mini vacations when i go to camps in the off season. Bottom line when your not ref-ing, spend time only with them. OH and let them SHOP a lot!
