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Old Wed Jan 24, 2001, 11:35am
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Wink Re: Re: Re: RE: re: YOU'RE IN CHARGE

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Originally posted by BktBallRef
We don't warn coaches for something they haven't done yet. For all we know, this coach may not even remember Juulie. If he doesn't, then she has created a problem that otherwise wouldn't exist. If and when he becomes a problem, then you take care of business.
Yes, this is the exact point and I am working with myself to get here. I feel a little like I used to feel the morning after a bad arguement with my teen-age daughter. What she said last night may have no bearing on how she feels today, and I need to deal with my own feelings before I see her again, and rise above resentment,usspicion and hostility. Sounds great in words... hope I can get there.
That't the key! Treat coaches as if they are just another
mad-at-the-world-no-one-understands-me teenager! Thanks!
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