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[woolnojg]

If you have concerns about the referee, then approach the Head Official. The large majority of officials are fair and work hard. Many youth officials are just starting out and need time to learn how to officiate. It take about 3 years to truly learn how to be a referee.
In short, if it was a judgement issue, you're stuck with the call.
If it is a rules application issue, then you better know the rule and be able to make your case calmly and civilly.