Here they are for fastpitch on a slowpitch field, or to add fences to an unfenced field.

I am going to disagree with the idea of stature not impacting how a coach interacts with an umpire.

There is a reason that MLB had size requirements for umpires. You don't see many short umpires in MLB. The reason for the requirement was because MLB wanted the umpires to be able to stand level to level with the players and coaches during arguments. Players and coaches will most certainly attempt to tower over a smaller umpire in an argument. It is a form of intimidation. It is also a natural action in a confrontation, not even something that people consciously do. When in a confrontation nature tells a person (or animal) to make themselves appear as big as possible. This certainly does happen on the softball diamond. A large number of coaches will treat an umpire who is over 6 feet tall and 250 pounds much differently than a 5-0 umpire who weighs 100 pounds soaking wet.

"I talked with coaches and spectators afterward and none really could tell where ball landed.......even one of the other def coaches not involved in the "fray"

You talked about this call with anyone other than your partner and/or other umpires away from fans/coaches/players? I oppose this.

What you just said is pure unadulterated hogwash. Just keep in mind that that there are two women currently officiating in the NBA and there will be one woman officiating in the NFL.

MTD, Sr.

Maybe in the past...though I've never heard of it documented. "Had" is the key word here.