pre-game..what should I have done..

[kellerumps]

I really believe we have to de-personalize situations and just say "COACH, no more (no "I")" gently first, then strongly. In other words, his behavior has reached a limit for the good of game, not your personal feelings.

I see your point and agree with it. However, I don't believe in this situation I am personalizing it. My personal feelings have not entered into this at all, if they had, they I would have sent him packing already.

By stating "I Have heard enough!!!", is not a personal attack, it is a simple statement coming from the person who is in charge of the game.