dealing with player/coaches in SP leaugue

[ontheway]

Tonight I had a ball hit to left center field and hits the ground and glove at the same time...while he comes up running with the ball in his glove and players start to walk off they FINALLY notice i have been waiving it off. the Pitcher/coach goes ballistic and can be heard the rest of the inning and in to the next talking about how horrible we are.....I personally regret NOT tossing him now but where do you guys normally draw the line????

thanks in advance for comments and advice

P.S I was the BU and at the call was 15 ft or so behind second base