Welcome to the ASA editorial standards! ;)

I'm going to chime in here a little. I'll be 100% honest when I tell you that my initial reaction to your first postings on here were that of, well, a troll. I'm not saying that's what you are, but that's just how you came across. If you want to change that perception, just stick around, be open-minded to what people say, and just be honest with us and yourself. We're here to help each other.

Bear in mind that umpires, generally-speaking, are naturally an apprehensive bunch. We don't trust outsiders very quickly, mainly because we catch a lot of sh1t. We protect our own. If you're new here, we welcome you. Just don't expect the free backrubs to start right away. You've gotta earn those (see skahtboi down the hall).

Oh, and take nothing of what Mike says personally. He's just brutally honest with you, and most people just aren't used to it at first. But trust me, he's not an evil or ill person, and he devotes more time in a week helping other umpires than most people dedicate in a year.

If you really want to advance, this is, without a doubt, the forum where you want to be. You will absolutely, positively get the definitive answers for rule interpretations here. Stick around, relax, and pay attention.

However, the most important thing to stress is honesty, both with us and, most importantly, with yourself. The forum is like the field: if you lie, you will get caught, and your integrity will forever be shot. If you're honest with us and with yourself, you'll learn more than you thought possible.

I understand the apprehension you feel. I'm not a newbie to officiating. I will start my seventh year of basketball officiating in September.

I am a newbie to softball, though. I can understand how the "tag without the ball" came across as trollish. I was honestly, and without guile, trying to play devil's advocate because I didn't fully understand the rule (since it's written so poorly).

I will, however, say that I've never agreed with the "don't take it personally" meme. I had a guy in a game last night who was arguing balls and strikes with me and then came up to bat the next inning and told me "hey, I'm just riding you a bit, don't take it personally." I called him out in the middle of the inning. I said, "When you speak to someone, you automatically make it personal. Don't absolve yourself of the responsibility of treating someone with respect by encouraging them not to "take" it personal when you were the one who "made" it personal."

End of the world? All I did was state a fact of life, the mechanics to calling an IP is, okay in most cases should be Umpiring 101.

That's like telling a soldier, "Here's your gun to carry around. If you ever get into a situation where you need it, will give you the ammo and train you how to fire the thing". Why not get the proper training no matter what level of ball you are working? Wouldn't it be nice to be a step ahead of the game?

The money the recreational folks pay you spends just as well as that of a national or international level, why wouldn't your game be the same? There are numerous umpires on this board that give the same effort at the local park as they would in ASA's Hall of Fame Stadium whether it is a 10U tournament or the 18U Gold National.

This or any other board is not where one protects the intergrity of anything. If you think supporting and promoting and taking local associations and lazy people to the task of providing or attaining proper training the umpires for which they accept money is being a blowhard, then I guess that's what I am.

You already had your answer. How many more people did you want to tell you the same thing. I simply noted that this is Umpiring 101.

To be honest, the fact that it is Umpiring101, not being instructed of that would irritate the **** out of me. The only integrity of which you should be worried is that of your association. I would be standing in front of the association board and demanding access to the proper training.

Oh, well, good luck

Nice to know we both agree on something.

You know, if you work basketball games the same way you represent yourself here, I would hate to work 2 or 3 whistle with you.

You need to take a step back, think about how you are talking and reattempt to learn.

I worked basketball before I ever did softball and you sound somewhat typical, over-officious and resentful if someone brings a point forward that you missed.

I can say this, because I was like that too.

You reacted poorly to a statement that the illegal pitch mechanic is umpiring 101, well it is.
Whether you like it or not, it is basic. Don't feel put upon if some people expect you to know it asap.
I think of it a bit like knowing whether to have a open hand or a closed fist up when you blow your whistle. Violation or foul?
You need to know before you walk out on the floor.

However, if you are learning this on your own, Congrats.
I encourage you to get an umpire rulebook, casebook etc from ASA.
Find you local commish through ASA's website if you need to.
You should have been given one if you registered ASA and if not, email Irish and he will help you out.

Hope this helps a bit.
If I can be of any help, message me privately though the board.
I love seeing new officials work out the kinks in their game and advance.
Especially since my Dr. worn't let me work anymore games until I get this da** aneurysm repaired.

I would suggest not calling an IP.

I mean this in all seriousness. If you dont know what you are calling or how to call it and havent received training on what you are looking for and why - certainly as to intent and spirit, you should not be calling it.

What is it you would be calling that you couldnt resolve in some other way?

One of the worst things an umpire can do is read a sentence in the rule book then run out that day looking for that violation so they can practice enforcing it.

If you are PU - normally in rec league they do things like step on the pitchers plate with their hands together. Just tell em.

If you are bu and they are stepping off the plate, during a lull, go up, clean the Pitchers plate, and tell her, "toe up girl, you gotta touch the plate with both feet".

If you do call it, call it early, with no runners on. Dont wait until the 5th inning with bases loaded to figure out you are going to finally call it.

Its an instructional recreational league, not a competitive travel tournament. 90% will never play a travel tournament - they just want to play.

Let them play ball.

Especially until you receive training.

There are more to IP's than throwing your arm out.

If at all possible, work it in someother way other than simply making calls. Picking boogers and looking for trouble; well you will find it.

If you do call it, call it early, with no runners on. Dont wait until the 5th inning with bases loaded to figure out you are going to finally call it.

Its an instructional recreational league, not a competitive travel tournament. 90% will never play a travel tournament - they just want to play... so let let them play ball.

Especially until you receive training.

There are more to IP's that throwing your arm out and awards balls and bases.

Dont be suprised if several umps disagree with me, on this... but at this point, unless some significant thing is happening like some walking crow hop or are gaining some other big advantage - let it go or figure out another way to deal with it. You dont have the training nor forum for a lot of IP enforcement.

Again, being honest is good. I've seen a lot of people get chased off of here because, quite simply, they veil their intentions behind their questions, and we get dragged into the middle of some p1ssing match. Stick around, and you'll see it plenty of times.

Well, in re-reading this thread, I can see who fired the first shot, and it wasn't Mike. Mike just tends not to mince words once this happens. :)

And no, you shouldn't take it personally. We're not criticizing you as a person, we're criticizing your judgment or your opinion. There's a huge difference.

I'll admit that I used to take criticism or disagreements personally. If someone disagreed with me, or if they felt that I did a bad job, I internalized it. I felt threatened. Then, years later, I had a boss who used to be in the Marines. Working for him taught me the difference between someone tearing you down to build you up and someone tearing you down just to tear you down.

If someone now tells me, "Dave, you screwed up" or "Dave, you're dead wrong," I don't get mad. I simply ask how, and if I disagree, I disagree.

So seriously... No one here is trying to tear you down for the sake of tearing you down. We tear you down to build you up, brother.

If a new official comes to me and asks me the difference between an open and closed fist, I don't tell him "Well, that's officiating 101" and walk away, whether I intend to be or not, I'm a jackass for doing that. I'm not being a teacher, I'm being a high-horse jackass, and I have no problem treating someone as a jackass as a result.

Could I have misinterpreted Mike's intent? Sure. But he gave me no indication other than to believe he's on his umpire high horse, givin' a good, old-fashioned talkin' to to a newbie who doesn't know his stuff. Which is fine.

I don't take offense to being told, in a respectful manner, that what I'm doing is wrong, or I look like a buffoon, or I don't know my rules. It's happened many times over the course of my career.

Well, relax. Mike means no harm.

I think I had a similar reaction to Mike when I first came here, but then I got to know him better. Trust me, just let it go, stick around, and enjoy yourself here. No one here is out to getcha.

I really don't think Mike hit you too hard, he is known to be patient but firm.
I have known Mike online for a number of years, and it has been more than a few years since I have seen him in person.
He is a class act and someone I would certainly defer to on the rules of the game and for ASA mechanics.

I have never known Mike to dress anyone down unless it was richly deserved such as with a troll or a pretender, ie someone who said that they were something they weren't in umpiring.

I, myself and myself alone, read you as someone who was digging for a debate or small ball arguement. I apologize for my mis-understanding of you and who you are.

Now, if I blow up and holler at you. It is because I have very little to no tolerance for and umpire or referee making a call that they cannot explain, or for not knowing the rule from which a call should come.

Learn your rules, be patient with people like me.
It is hot, the summer makes everyone crazy.
Work your game of softball with a real intensity that is equal to what you do in basketball. You and I both know that watching 10 players, partner or partners and the ball is difficult.
Work with that same kind of awareness, being knowledgeable with the rules and casebook and you can work any level.

Sorry if we misread you and just be patient with those of us who were sceptical.

Those who have been around take offense not so much at you but at an association who would leave you hanging in the wind with no good training or instruction.

See if you can find a knowledgeable person locally to use as your mentor or at least find someone who is putting forth effort so that you can bounce ideas and questions off of.

Keep plugging away, the game gets better.

And a bit of advice you may already know: it's not always the "old veteran" who knows best. I had a "20-year vet" tell me that a runner leading off on the pitch is an appeal play in slow pitch.

Pick your mentors carefully. ;)

Amen to that, I once had an old crusty vet tell a partner (3 man) that he had to call the infield fly when we had runners on 1st and 3rd and that a coach was immediatly ejected if the coach came out with a rulebook to ask a question. The old guys swore these things were in the rulebook.:eek:

They may have been, just not the one we use for softball ;)

Well, there are plenty of "unwritten rules." For example, if a coach comes running out of the dugout at full speed (all 3 MPH!) to come yell at me, he can just keep right on going.

¡Olé!