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Old Tue May 06, 2008, 07:59am
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You have to nip it in the bud early and without delay. If one team starts jawing at you, pull their coach or captain aside and tell him to get his team under control or you'll start sending players home early.

There is no reason to accept disparaging remarks from anyone. Hey, wait... I think I read that in the book somewhere...

So if they're getting unsportsmanlike, start tossing people. Don't put up with their BS, but don't show them that they're getting a rise out of you. Doing so just eggs them on further. After a few ejections, it will eventually get through their thick skulls to their small brains - play nice, or don't play at all.

I've seen entire leagues ruined by one team coming in and causing problems that were not being addressed by the umpires. The blues weren't checking bats closely (and a number of altered and non-approved bats were never addressed), weren't tossing people when they should, and generally weren't enforcing a good standard of conduct for the players (and, sometimes, themselves). Uphold a higher standard, and encourage your partners to do the same. Otherwise, you're in for a very long year.
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Old Tue May 06, 2008, 08:33am
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I had a similar situation last week but it was in youth ball. The kid hit a pretty good hit and tripped over first base. The first base coach picked the kid up and set her in front of first and pushed her toward second. It was the third out so I start declaring the out and the HC states "That was her only hit of the year and you are going to take it away from her" and from my wonderful time here I come back with this: "No sir Coach, your assistant did that, I only enforced the rule."
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Old Tue May 06, 2008, 09:02am
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Hmmm, I think yall should have thicker skin than that. That's what Bluefoot told me in his umpires' clinic.
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Old Tue May 06, 2008, 04:06pm
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Unless this was a championship game in a tournament (and maybe even then), I would strongly consider calling "time" as soon as I see both teams leaving the field and/or the base coach about to physically assist a runner, and inform everyone that there are only 2 outs. It'd be preventative umpiring, in my opinion - especially in crap SP. And fwiw, I've stopped working (for now) that game as well, because I'm in a frame of mind where I just can't stand it right now (and couldn't stand it at the end of last year) - both from a who-my-crap-partner's-going-to-be-tonight perspective, and also (and mainly) from a I-don't-want-to-deal-with-these-weekend-warriors'-crap-anymore-for-any-amount-of-money point of view.
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Old Wed May 07, 2008, 02:15pm
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Unless this was a championship game in a tournament (and maybe even then), I would strongly consider calling "time" as soon as I see both teams leaving the field and/or the base coach about to physically assist a runner, and inform everyone that there are only 2 outs. It'd be preventative umpiring, in my opinion - especially in crap SP. And fwiw, I've stopped working (for now) that game as well, because I'm in a frame of mind where I just can't stand it right now (and couldn't stand it at the end of last year) - both from a who-my-crap-partner's-going-to-be-tonight perspective, and also (and mainly) from a I-don't-want-to-deal-with-these-weekend-warriors'-crap-anymore-for-any-amount-of-money point of view.
It sounds like you do probably need to get away from the games for awhile. I'm not to sure I agree with your preventive umpiring "time" call in that sich...just let it play out, call the 3rd out for coach interference if thats what happened...and move on. Toss any who complain too much. Dont take it personal, just rule and keep going....
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Old Wed May 07, 2008, 02:34pm
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I had a similar situation last week but it was in youth ball. The kid hit a pretty good hit and tripped over first base. The first base coach picked the kid up and set her in front of first and pushed her toward second. It was the third out so I start declaring the out and the HC states "That was her only hit of the year and you are going to take it away from her" and from my wonderful time here I come back with this: "No sir Coach, your assistant did that, I only enforced the rule."
The BR reached first.
It remains a hit.
Riunner needs some more agility training, like rope jumping,
That's a coaching/parenting problem.
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