Coach/Ref

[hab_in_exile]

I recently worked a game where the head of our officials association was coaching. I ended up T-ing him for some comments (and throwing his hat in frustration). This was hardly flagrant, but I think that it is pretty serious in that he is supposed to be on the referee's side. I said before the tournament that if I had to T him up I would not referee anymore, but I think I may have been overreacting. Either way, I am discombobulated! Advice?