"As for swearing - You will have to find your own solution. I would try to evaluate if it was directed at me or a general commant. I am fairly quick with a flag and ejection for something like that though..."

But that's the problem, for the most part it isn't directed at me. If it was, I would have no problem ejecting them and suspending them for a game or two. But for the most part they say "c*nt" if they miss a pass or something like that. Upset with themselves, is probably the most fitting description. Nevertheless, I don't think it should be acceptable, there are other women at the games as well. And believe, I don't know a single woman who doesn't find this offensive, even when not directed at oneself. But I can't seem to get men to understand that.