Clarification of 'Forward Progress'

[WyMike]

Where does the 'Forward Progress' definition begin or end? My first season officiating and possibly my 'old school' football philosophy is interfering with the modern rules of football.

There have been times where I believe the ball carrier to still be active, and not what I consider to be in control of the defense, and still struggling to gain yardage. When A is finally brought to the ground 5-7 yards back, he is given the 'forward progress'. I don't feel this is correct.

What if while B has a grasp of A's jersey and is swinging him back (forward progress) both of them struggle - one to break free and one to finally tackle A - A breaks away?

1) Isn't this type of play giving A an unfair advantage by allowing the 'forward progress' point - AND ALSO - allowing him maybe break away as well for a long gain?

2) Is 'forward progress' more defined when A is wrapped up and definitely going down soon to where the 'forward progress' is certain? (A bang-bang type of play.)

3) And if A isn't totally under control of B - but still being driven backwards - and is finally brought down, shouldn't that be the ball spot? Since A isn't under control and still may have gained yardage, and B finally got control of A and brought him down in the backfield?

I believe this to be a judgment call where I may be more 'old school' than some. Your thoughts?