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Recently I posted about having to remove a head Varsity coach from my JV game because he was inciting the crowd. And as he was leaving he threatened to wait in the parking lot for me. Turns out that coach did sit out the next game.
I just got an email from the assignor telling me I have been removed from lower level games for that school. This was at the school's request. At first I was a bit surprised, but felt understanding, as an assignor I'm sure she's just doing what's easiest for her. She never asked me my side of the story, although I did file a report, so she may have read it. However, I'm starting to feel a bit upset about this, as I think more an more about it. I'm even considering just turning back all my lower level games for this assignor. Any thoughts would be appreciated. |
Communicate with your assignor before deciding anything. This is probably best handled via phone.
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So the coach gets reprimanded by CHSAA, and the assigner acquiesces to the shool's demands? If I were you, I'd ask her what she thinks you could have or should have done differently.
I get that assigners up there are probably competing for schools, but this is ridiculous. |
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She might have done it for your own good. To keep you away from that school could be best for both parties. Just a thought.
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And I wouldn't turn back any games you've accepted, but I would consider not taking any games from her in the future if you can work without her. First, however, I would call her and see if there's something she thinks you could have done differently.
If she says you should have ignored him, then I'd strongly consider not taking any more games from her (next year, perhaps). |
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I think this is the best course of action. |
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Putting myself in Toren's shoes, I'm not sure I'd want to go back to that school. |
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So I called her
She said it's standard policy for her that when an official has an ejection from a game that they "switch" games and removed from that school for the remainder of the season, as precautionary.
I had that school, lower level, again on February 11. So she is going to find someone that had a site that is close in proximity to my game and switch us. She also said she hasn't read my report on the issue and she is definitely not siding with the school. She further said, that her boss did look at the report, but that she specificially has not. Consequently, she didn't know if I could have handled it differently, but felt because of the nature of the coaches behavior, it was best for all parties involved. |
Who cares!!!!!!
Consider it a blessing!!! How many schools will you pass to work that school? Dude this is nothing to get upset by at all. You do not want to go back there so when something else happens they can blame it on your previous incident with them.
If you have not been banned from a school in your career, you are not doing your job. I do not know how your assigning works, but an assignor around here can only control the games they assign. Funny how I get coaches on the road that do not like me in other situations like tournaments, non-conference games or playoffs. Peace |
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It's been my experience that most coaches are afraid to scratch an official from their school for fear of retaliation by other officials. I've heard this first hand in the form of: "I know you guys all talk...I don't want to draw the wrath of your fellow zebras". |
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Peace |
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Reassigning for one season does seem reasonable, however. It allows enough time to lapse for all parties to get past the emotions of the game. |
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This is a pretty reasonable policy. She isn't just taking games away from you - she is switching you out. That makes sense for you, her, and the school. Now if she won't send you back there next season, or won't even assign you that school on the road, then there is probably more of an issue there. But this seems like she is trying to take care of you and the school. I would let it slide ( and believe me, I have had to deal with some crazy assignors in the past). |
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Peace |
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You should thank your assignor. Why would you want to back there if he was a jerk?
There are plenty of officials better than you or me who have been scratched at schools at a much higher level. Fuggetabowdit. |
Thanks for all the comments. Extremely helpful.
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JR a coach up our way was in a habit of every time he lost a home game he'd try and scratch officials. Assignor finally told him he'd start sending soph refs as nobody was left. |
I assign and officiate so I think I know both sides.
First, if a school doesn't really want me, I don't want to go there. I have one school that I worked at for over 10 years and because I wouldn't dump a previously scheduled football date for one at that school, the AD has determined that I don't work there any longer. That's OK. My ethics mean more to me that one football, two basketball and one baseball game a year. As an assigner, I will listen to an AD if they have concerns about an official. If their reasoning is solid and officating based, we will work with the official through enhanced training and evaluating. I had a deal a few weeks ago where a principal had an issue with an official regarding language. I worked with the official and told the school that. They invited him back provided his behavior improve. Now everyone is happy. |
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I haven't had an open Friday night since that incident, so why should I care? |
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Toren - Sorry that you have to deal with this situation.
On one hand - an assignor needs to put each assigned crew in the best place to succeed. Frankly, after an ejection... it might be best for everyone if you did not work at the school the rest of the year. There should be plenty of other games and hopefully, your assignor will endeavor to fill your now open dates. I do have a problem if the assignor does not have your back. I sincerly hope that she asked for your side of the story before pulling the games..I understand that an assignor needs to manage the official and coach worlds of her league. As long as you were validated by the rules and handled the situation appropriately and professionally (and validated by tape - probably not available at a lower level game) - then you did your job. At the end of the day, this decision has been already made and is out of your hands. I would suggest moving on and if you feel strong enough to not work for her, that is your choice. Before you do anything, I would try to have a phone conversation with your assignor so that both of you are clear on the details. |
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I know we tease that Coaches are pretty thick headed...but, most of these guys know a "soph ref" from a Varsity official. 1st Quarter...I was new T coming up the floor when V1 passed the ball. V1 thought I had taken my eyes off of him...so V1 pushed H1 in frustration. Boom...I got the foul and yelled, (for some reason);)..."and that will be the last time". Coach IMMEDIATELY had a substitue for V1. (smart coach...and I told him as much) The next time down the court I heard the Coach tell his bench..."hey, these guys are Varsity refs...no messing around tonight!":D |
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The good ones do.... |
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A friend of mine that works D1 was working with a guy that this past year worked a game that would be a step away from the State Finals (we climb the latter here). And they were working a JV game on a Saturday morning at a rather good program. The coach from this school assumed that the guys could not "handle" that level of game. He did not realize that the guys he had were probably more experienced than anyone he had all year and one of the guys had worked the varsity game of his biggest rival a few years before the season with me. Both guys are young looking and are very good officials and some guy thought that game on a Saturday was too much for them. Peace |
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Occasionally, we get the oportunity to do lower level games...i.e. heavy night, mentor younger officials, etc. ...my ego was just looking for a way to get that statement by the soph coach in...;) |
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I'll never forget how the JV coach told me near the end of the game I was the best JV ref he'd ever had. Then he saw me walk out for the varsity game a few minutes later... |
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I didn't read all the responses, but this is my take:
1. There is a school that I have purposely not assigned myself to because of a situation earlier this season. I just don't want or need the perception that I have it out for this coach. Like Rut said, there are plenty other schools I can work at. 2. I had a DII assignor in WV that would remove an official at the coach's request...he would remove the official from any home games and purposely put that official on that team's road games. 3. During my last game with one coach in Mississippi I gave the coach a T. I walked away immediately. When I got into the locker room, my partner told me that the coach said, "You will never work at ______again". If I would have known that on the court I would have thrown the coach out. I had not made it public at the time, but I was retiring from the Air Force and planned on moving back to Vegas after the season anyway - I will probably never see the coach again. But if I do I have one in my back pocket for him. :D |
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I'm sure you do! |
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