Mike Barnicle article

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Originally posted by theboys
As a parent of a "reasonably gifted" athlete, the most difficult decision is how far to let it go.

And there are many variables that come into play. How much does he want to win? Or is playing with his friends just as important? How many games and travel is involved? How much practice? To me this is the most important. I've seen too many select basketball and baseball players not really develop as youngster because of not enough practice. Thses players usually are natural athletes and can play games with little instruction. But enthusiastic parents and coaches schedule too many games. That doesn't allow correction of game situations, among other things. And this is coming from a guy who benefits from officiating a lot of these extra games. In the long run, this doesn't allow they play to do succeed. Unless he or she is so physically gifted that it masks his fundamental shortcomings. (see: Eddie Curry, for example)

Good luck with your athlete. And remember the title of Pete Carill's outstanding book, "The Smart Take from the Strong".