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Carrying a weak partner
I attended a church-sponsored officiating camp this week to help out with training church league referees. The mix of experience and abilities was very wide ranging. Some folks we encouraged to sign up for high school ball this year. Others...well I shudder at the mere thought of them stepping on any court anywhere. And I got to work with some of both.
As I have moved up the ranks, I find more often than not that I'm paired with weaker partners. So I have had ample opportunity to work on my "lead official" skills and learn to carry a weaker partner. Generally it goes pretty well. But this weekend was a very mixed bag. Frankly I was surprised at how badly a couple of my games went. Apparently I don't have all the tools in my bag that I need. Which has me thinking: What do you think it takes to successfully carry a significantly weaker partner, especially in an ugly game? |
I'm sure you realize there's no stock answer to your question. Some "weaker" partners can be very resentful of anything you try to do to help. Conversely, some are grateful for any help. I guess you just try to test them out at the beginning of the game the first time they don't perform up to par by diplomatically asking them about a call. Try not to "lecture" them, but try to phrase your help in the form of questions without being confrontational. Nod and say things like "I see" when they answer. Reply with suggestions in a friendly manner. Unless they're a real jerk (which, unfortunately, sometimes is the case) they probably will become more responsive as the game goes on. You know you've gotten through to them when they start to come to you for advice, however, if they tell you they don't want any, just accept that and do the best you can on your own.
Hope that helps at least a little. Just be patient and accept that you can't turn everyone around. |
Just ask Daryl Long how he handles having to carry a weak partner for game after game, year after year. :D
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Mark,
I think that was one of the best answers I have ever heard from you. No sarcasm and just plain dope about the topic. I am impressed my man, very impressed. :D BITS, Mark gave the best answer by far (I would not do any justice to add anything). Peace |
usually a weaker partner is just trying to "survive" the game by trying to get the calls right. he/she can't focus on all the "other stuff" (i.e. game management). that's where you have to step in and handle most, if not all, of those duties. take the pressure off of him or her by talking to/dealing with players, coaches, problem situations, etc. they are too busy officiating to notice lopsided foul counts, players who are becoming a problem, and controlling the benches.
you can't make every call for them (although you may have to "reach" a little now and then). |
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Pretty early on you should find out if there is something to work with or if you just are going to tough it out. Then the best you can do is find some middle ground of trying to not let the game get out of hand and completely taking over the game. When it is ugly well it is ugly and all you can do is manage it. Having been through a couple of camps already I have seen this several times this summer. I try to offer the "R" mentality with my partners and maintain both my composure and my primaries. I protect my partners integrity and use my communication and managment skills to try not to let it get out of hand. In one particularly ugly contentset when it was clear that one of my partners where out of his league our observer told me afterward that he gave up on that ref and was watching what the other two did to manage the game with this weak partner. While we did have to whack both a player and a coach because of this guys calls we were able to cover a lot of what he did through managment and talking with both players and coaches. Because of those "T's" almost all of the reaming when his way at the end of the game. I think the only thing you can do is work on your managment skills in these sithuations. |
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All you can do is do everything the right way, be a great partner, communicate well at every opportunity, and pay close attention to all the game management issues.
When all that fails, extend as much as you can to keep the players safe, and get in, get done, get out. |
I do not like the term weak partner. It seems harsh. I view those individuals whom may not have fully developed their officiating as a working progress. We all were once viewed into this WEAK PARTNER manner when we first started.
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There are plenty of those who are working hard and trying to get better, but they're just not there yet. They make plenty of mistakes, but it's a different kind of mistakes from the person who's been reffing for 5 or 6 years and still can't handle a 7th grade girls' game. The rookie can be instructed and can be managed, he's coachable. The stronger partner can work with him, and help them both work together better. That weak partner is the one who inspired the phrase, "Get in, get done, get out". Btw, I get the feeling you're a rookie, and not a weaker partner. But of course, I've never worked with you. |
Rainmaker, I respectfully, respectfully do not wholeheartly agree with you.:) I am not trying to defend anyone I'm just stating that the term "weak partner" is too harsh of a term. In our own personal opinions, anyone could be classified as a "weak partner if they do not meet our expectations as officials. This is my point.
The rookie can be instructed and can be managed, he's coachable. The stronger partner can work with him, and help them both work together better. That weak partner is the one who inspired the phrase, "Get in, get done, get out". I understand from your aformentioned statement that consistency is optimum when working with someone who needs more seasoning as an official. However, what about those officials whom been calling five or six years and all it's been is Rec Ball. How do we categorize them? a) rookie b) beginner c) in over their head d) weak partner Finally, I like the parting shot you took. You have in your own personal opinion just categorize me as a rookie. Why do we have to put people in categories we do not know personally?:confused: Btw, I get the feeling you're a rookie, and not a weaker partner. But of course, I've never worked with you.[/QUOTE] |
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Scrapper, initially, I did not see it as a compliment. I viewed it as a shot based on the content of the thread. However, now you have pointed it out. I can err on the compliment side aspect. |
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In answer to your question about what to call someone who's done several years of rec only, I'd say it depends largely on their attitude. When they first come into "official" ball, are they willing to take the next step? Do they listen to suggestions and try to get better? Then they're rookies-who-are-working-hard. Or taking-the-next-step. Or if they get into a tough game, but give it their best, they're in over their head, but working hard and learning fast. Otherwise, they're just "weak partners". |
Rainmaker, everything is cool. It has been about four years since I researched and found this site. At the time, I thought it would be interesting to identify myself as a rookie to the people on this site. Informing them, I am/was new to the avocation. I have grown tremendously as an official from those on this site. Even the ones who may have stated, I should take my officials shirt and work at Champ's shoe store.;) They know who they are!!
It is my belief that in some capacity we all can be viewed as a weak partner to others. I believe it is safe to say we all have weaknesses. Thus, labelling someone else as a weak partner in my opinion is inappropriate. I know I have weaknesses I'm human.;) |
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Now we can try to break down why they are "weak" and that can lead to different descriptions: 1. New...now this is where we all were at one point and while it isn't always fun, very few of us hate working these games if the new official is trying to get better. 2. The rec ref...these guys hate real reffing because of the politics, IOW, their way didn't cut it so real reffing is beneath them. They won't use the proper mechanics, they are 5 years behind in rule changes, and you won't have much of a chance to make them better...or your day easier. 3. The cash cow ref...these are the guys with the $10 dollar, light weight, collared ref shirts...usually untucked...metal, pea whistle, no mechanics, have never seen a rule book much less read one. IOW, our worst nightmare. Now, it's possible to have overlap as well. The #1 fast on the way to #2 or #3. Usually, it's the combo of #2 and #3 that is the worst. |
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Blindzebra, you have raised some valid points. You also imposed a question upon me which I will answer. Your question: So what would be a better term for that partner that is making your life a living hell? CLUELESS!;) |
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Are those the flashing lights of the PC police I see?
Huh? The term weak is too strong? That's a new one on me. :confused:
Somewhere out there in the world is the greatest referee working today. Somewhere else out there is the worst ref working today. The rest of us fall somewhere in a continuum between these two exceptional officials. Which means that each of us is weaker than some partners and stronger than others. It's not derogatory, it's a fact of life that must be dealt with on the court. I merely posed a question which grew out of an unpleasant, very real situation. In asking my question I have not called anybody out; I have not named any names. My question isn't even about the official who inspired it; it's about how to better handle the next one. And there will be a next one. To try and steer the conversation around the truth for the sake of preserving the tender feelings of some official who is not present, has not been named, and is unknown to anybody else in the conversation is just plain silly and dilutes the usefulness of the discussion. :rolleyes: |
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Is it so hard to say? I worked with an official who is still developing as an official. |
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Like I said before, you may be working with someone new who is trying, so yes they are "weaker" than you but that isn't the question being asked in this thread. The OP was talking about that partner where all the tricks you'd use with that inexperienced official...communicating every chance you get, being a great partner, leading by example, staying on top of all game management situations...just don't work. Those partners that frustrate me are the ones who don't care, don't want to improve because they either think they don't need to or don't care because all they want is the cash. Those guys aren't developing. |
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Our job is calling what's there, not making the fouls even.:rolleyes: |
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WOW. I basically have two responses: "Tell your kids to stop fouling." "Are you saying I'm cheating or incompetent?" "Because I really want to know which T I'll be giving you." And I'm going to continue calling what is there and not start looking for stuff to make the scoreboard look better. |
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To me foul counts are no different than being aware of who is jawing at each other and nipping that in the bud. Do not blow things out of portion, what we call "game management" are things that we should be aware of in order to keep things smooth. If a coach is constantly gripping about something you should address it eventually or things might go in a direction you do not want it to go. Peace |
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Coaches yapping about it, you address the yapping, not the foul count causing the yapping. As for game management, I'll nip that in the bud too. Coach A is yapping about foul counts...suddenly JRut "finds" a couple of fouls on team B, since he's now aware of a foul disperity...coach B sees this and you know what happens? Now you have two coaches yapping...your game management just got harder. I suppose the howler monkey yelling 3 seconds every trip has you scanning the paint, making sure you haven't missed the big guy toasting marshmellows, too?:rolleyes: |
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Also if a coach is yelling 3 seconds every time up the court it will be addressed. Then again most coaches at the level I work get the hint and it is almost never addressed. Zeb, you and I have already established we do not see eye to eye on things. Why would this be any different? ;) Peace |
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You always want to turn something I say into a nefarious or sinister reasoning. It is not like Jeff or I are talking about this in a bubble. The camp we both attended last year these things were openly talked about and every person talking about them were much higher level officials than both of us at this current time. Peace |
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You were the one who said, you will be aware and won't be passing on something you could call against the team on the plus side of 8-1...let's not back track now. Just admit it, you want to get a coach off your back by making a cosmetic change in the foul count, instead of calling what's there and handling the howler monkey. |
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"Also if I have 8 to 1 in fouls, I certainly do not want to miss any fouls against the team that has 8." Sounds like finding a foul to me. |
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No the concept is a cosmetic one, because of the scrutiny D-1 guys are under, that HS officials aren't. You are trying to impose a philosophy that doesn't belong in a HS game, just like calling a HS game using NBA guidelines isn't a good idea either. There are plenty of these "concepts" out there, doesn't make them correct or appropriate for lower levels. Most aren't correct for the levels they are at either, but I regress. |
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Maybe this is how it is where you live, but not here. I worked a football game about 2 seasons ago and I was involved in 2 calls that not only were scrutinized, but was made a major issue by the assignor. Now this game was not even on public access or a major game in the bigger scheme of things. The paper did not even make an issue out of the plays and you would have thought the world was coming to and end. The game even affected my crew working the following year for this particular assignor. Now this was a football game which is a distant second on the scale that basketball has in this state. And you say that D1 officials are under more scrutiny? I will agree that D1 officials are under much pressure from more sides, but if we (the lowly HS official) screws up, I have seen similar punishments brought down or plays being dissected as they are on the D1 level. Quote:
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I worked a game in Peoria, Illinois on Sunday (I must emphasize it was a damn summer league game that pays less than what I will make where I currently live) because I was near the town and I was asked to by a friend of mine to work with them. I guess that is a resume issue to you as well. Peace |
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As if the sun rises and sets on the Illinois...guess what? Nobody gives a crap where your games are or what they do in your area, doesn't change the fact you are full of crap. |
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Hey!! How did I get drug into this mess? You're arguing with blindzebra, not me...we haven't disagreed about anything in a long time. |
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And just for a taste of your own medicine...which one of us worked a state final this year? See how relevant that was to the discussion?;) |
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Do you want to deal with facts?
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