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Alright, it appears you have the same problem as the others. You been drinking that Kool-Aid and we have pretty much comfirmed that there is something in the Kool-Aid around here. Okay, I need you to sit down, relax, take a deep breath and repeat after me. It's not all about me, again, it's not all about me, one more time, it's not all about me. It's about the players, it's about the game, but it's not about me. |
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FYI: 26 years total experience. 25 years officiating at college level. 3 years as an alternate in the BIG 10 assigned to the University of Michigan before they went to 3 officials. 20 years as a Div 1 evaluator and scout. 10 years officiating AAU, YBOA, and AYBT National Championships. In ALL the conferences in which I officiated/scouted/evaluated the officials were required to take care of coach's behavior such as mentioned in this sitch and were supported by supervisors. Coaches behavior in youth games is far worse than any collegiate game I have ever been involved with. If fact at the youth National Championships coaches are amazed at the number of "T's" received by themselves during the tournament. Why? Because most of the officials have collegiate experience and do not hesitate to enforce bench decorum. |
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It is a pleasure to meet you Mr. Daryl H. Long. I am humbled and honored by your accomplishments and do respect your position and opinion on this topic. Thanks for chimming in. Last edited by Old School; Wed Mar 14, 2007 at 12:35pm. |
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WOW! I cant believe the response I got from this. This is the first time I got a chance to check it out since I posted it....guess I've been working too many games (48 games since 1 feb 07). I think oldschool is the only one that kinda understood what I felt at the time. I know all about integrity of the game and so on and even when I talked to my ref buddies most said I should have "T" ed him, But if you saw one of my replies I also mentioned I played and coached also and have said stuff out of frustration regerting what I said and Oldschool caught that part. He also caught the part on how I mentioned the game went great up to that point, close all the way, no complaints just a good close clean game (local championship) and I just couldnt see firering up the whole gym ( at least 300 people) with a few seconds left when it was something between me and the coach and only a couple people may have heard. I will say it did piss me off like no other comment all year. But when I went home, grab a beer and jumped in my hot tub I felt good about it but woundered what other Refs would have done. By the way I'm not that new a Ref. I've been Officiating for 10 years, mostly Armed Forces adult and youth Rec leagues as its all I had a chance to do since I was in the military for 22 years, I just started NJBL this year and loved it. I got selected to do the district championship last sunday ( 3 man, that was cool) and would love to do High School again (only did 1 year) and college would be a dream. Learned more this year then any and alot from this forum....thanks
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Philz - if you've been around this forum long enough you would start to doubt yourself even more if Old School agrees with you...
![]() Let me ask you this about the original post: let's say in your game, instead of the coach coming out and doing his thing, sub A6 has to come in for A1 because A1 twisted their ankle on the play. 24 sec. left, A is down by one. A6 gets the ball, and does an obvious travel, because they hadn't been in the game before this. Does this thought cross your mind: "Maybe I should let this travel go, because all the other A players played their hearts out this game, and it would be a shame to let this one player cost them the game"? I would hope you don't call the game this way. You should call the travel and move on. It is exactly the same with the coach's actions. You make the call, and move on. The coach's actions cost the team the game, not your call. Granted, you felt yourself getting emotional, and it is a good thing to try and keep emotions from getting in the way of the calls. But if the coach crosses the line, it's his fault for costing his players. I've figured out that if I leave a game wondering if I should've given a "T", then I should have given it. I have never left a game wondering if I should not have issued a T when I have.
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