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gruberted Fri Feb 16, 2007 02:43am

2 Parents Getting Unruly
 
Hey Guys,

I am officiating a 7th and 8th grade house league where we keep no standings or stats and there are these 2 parents in the stands who keep yelling at me with obscene words "call something you fn idiot" and etc. So I turn around tell them to be quiet or I will issue a technical foul. I don't know if i can do this but I didn't know what else to do.

The supervisor of the league told me that I had the right to forfeit the game if they kept razzing me on and did not know that.

But to add to this these two guys had the audacity to come up to me after the game still complain to me and told me to call the game fair. I responded with I don't call the game fair, I call it on how I see it and I can't make every person in the gym happy.

I know these two parents will be back next game which is next Thursday. What steps should I take if they continue to talk, can I issue a technical or kick them out of the gym?

Thanks,

Ted

tjones1 Fri Feb 16, 2007 02:54am

If they said "call something you fn idiot" they would be gone. Have game management remove them from the building. Don't issue a technical, just kick them out. You certainly should never put up with anything like that.

SMEngmann Fri Feb 16, 2007 03:00am

Throw them out immediately and don't respond to their crap after the game. Don't call a T here. Management should've better recognized the situation and run them, I would consider not working the league anymore if this happened.

gruberted Fri Feb 16, 2007 03:05am

I mean the league is great a lot of great games but there are a select few who think they know it all and take it out on me.

Jurassic Referee Fri Feb 16, 2007 06:13am

Quote:

Originally Posted by gruberted
I mean the league is great a lot of great games but there are a select few who think they know it all and take it out on me.

And they'll continue to do that until you run them. As already stated, get game management to unload them. It's their responsibility. Don't do it yourself. Just stop the game and tell game management who you want removed, and don't start the game up again until they're out the door. Also, do <b>not</b> talk to yappy fans like that if approached. If they're giving you a hard time after a game, report that to game management too and tell them that you want security.

If game management won't ensure a safe, sportsmanlike enviroment, seriously consider dropping that league. It's just not worth it.

SamIAm Fri Feb 16, 2007 09:49am

Is game management required to wait for an official to instruct them before removing a spectator?

Junker Fri Feb 16, 2007 09:49am

To agree with everyone else, have game management remove them. Calling the T on a team is a last resort under federation rules. If they are using that kind of language and berating officials after the game, I'd suggest to the administrator of the league that they not be allowed back or they can find other officials to work. You gotta love middle school parents. ;)

blindmanwalking Fri Feb 16, 2007 09:56am

Quote:

Originally Posted by SamIAm
Is game management required to wait for an official to instruct them before removing a spectator?

No. Good game managers are pro-active and will take care of business before officials have to deal with it.

bob jenkins Fri Feb 16, 2007 09:56am

Quote:

Originally Posted by SamIAm
Is game management required to wait for an official to instruct them before removing a spectator?

No. Hell no.

Raymond Fri Feb 16, 2007 12:08pm

How about this unruly parent?
 
http://sports.aol.com/news/articles/...15200509990001

Terrapins Fan Fri Feb 16, 2007 12:25pm

We had a fan removed last week for saying " Call the Damn foul" G-O-N-E.

Zero tolorence for profanity. Even DAMN.

Ref Daddy Fri Feb 16, 2007 12:47pm

Ditto Ditto.

Don't confront them yourself. Get Game management. Suspend the game till they arrive.

Unbelievable. I morn not only for you but the kids on the floor and the other spectators.


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