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[QUOTE=Jurassic Referee]To clarify, you don't know <b>anything</b>. You never will know <b>anything</b> either because you're too busy running your yap instead of listening and trying to learn. You don't even own any rulebooks yet and you've never officiated an organized basketball game in your life. Little facts like that don't stop you from running your big wise-azz mouth though. Personally, I think that we'd all be better off if you just stayed home with your hot wife until you grew up enough to realize whatinthehell you're getting into.
It's obvious that you don't really want to learn. You're just here to troll. GGRRRR!! |
Ha, you guys are passionate about your biz. Thats great! Sorry I stepped into the middle of this one tho...
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Fiasco -
I consider myself anti-social as well (also a newlywed). For what it's worth, I've socialized with officials that I do not already work with/am friends with a total of 3 times in 6 years (in 3 sports), and I've had no problem moving up through the ranks. I've been lucky enough to be in two associations where my performance speaks for itself while on the court/field, and games with/being watched by important veteran officials/assignors/board members has always carried most of the weight in getting my name out/up. So it depends largely, in my experience, what type of system is in place where you are going to be working. That all being said - I do not act at all anti-social when I attend meetings, scrimmages, camps, games that I'm not working,etc. and games I am working. And I attend as many of those as possible (I attend every meeting and every optional scrimmage for every sport I work) - being seen often, once people start to learn your name, and having intelligent things come out of your mouth when being seen also goes along way. So keep enjoying your time with your wife. I do. I use this forum and a select group of old friend/good officials via email to get my situational/discussion experience (and discussions at meetings). And definitely beltless. And pleated. And welcome.:) |
Observe Really Good Officials
Observe really good officials. I've been officiating for twenty-six years and I still try to attend as many league or conference playoffs or state tournament games as I can work around my schedule. The best officials on your local board, or in your state, are usually selected to work these games. Go and watch them. Luckily for me, my local IAABO board card gets me into league and conference playoffs for free, and my Connecticut Interscholastic Athletic Conference (CIAC) card gets me into all state tournament games for free.
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Very interesting........VERY interesting.
Not one rule discussed here, yet many valuable things to learn about officiating. What have we learned so far? |
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Fiasco, you've been given some good advice so far. The experienced ones here are giving you their viewpoint from a Varsity level, which is good.
Being a new ref means working grade/middle school ball (mostly), usually 2,3, or 4 games in a row at the same location, sometimes w/a veteran, usually with a newer guy. You can pick their brain before, halftime, and after about sichs. Ask for constructive advice. In our area, we arrive dressed (well, I do change shoes) for non HS games, as the only place to change is usually in the boys restroom (no hooks, shelves ect-only non-sanitary floor) Coaches at the lower levels (usually coach/dads) dont know the rules that well. Dont take abuse, but also dont take a coaches comments personally- act as a professional (minimal emotion). Ignore the fans, oh, and also,- IGNORE THE FANS! Reread the rules and casebook throughout the season. |
I'm not really one of those people that "goes out" with the refs very often either...I like to get home to my wife and three sons and spend time with them...however, when I was younger and trying to "move up" I realized that the social aspect had a huge impact on my position within the association. So I made compromises with my wife and kids and sacrificed some time with them...at this point in my life/career I can look back and see both the positives and negatives to those compromises...would I do it again - yes. Because those sacrifices (which really in my case were only every other Friday evening after games) helped me get where I am...like it or not, there is a lot of "politics" in officiating, and to be successful, sometimes you have to play that game - I just like to think that I manipulated the game somewhat to my benefit.
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From time to time I would go out and socialize after a game. I picked and chose those evenings out around the family schedule. Now that kids are older - every once in awhile we will socialize with the wives/necessary others following a game. This has really been a win-win situation.
We never go out and "socialize" when we have any distance to travel!! :) |
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I will be at an association run social on Friday. Usually there are D1 Officials, State Final Officials, multiple playoff officials and a couple of assignors of either conferences or tournaments. Anyone attending is going to benefit if they simply introduce themselves to one of these individuals. Peace |
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