I thought enough ahead and knew the try was successful. As soon as the players were in the general area of their benches, I told my partner "We'll resume with black ball, end line throw-in after a made basket." I then signaled to the table to count the bucket. The coach of the home team asked me if I was sure it was black's ball as we were resuming play...I was able to tell her "100% sure, Coach."

Again, good job, Larry. Well handled imo.

I might agree, except that one point I think is crucial that hasn't been made. Which is that an awful lot of kids at Christian schools aren't Christian, so behaving badly isn't hypocritical for them. And some kids are there because they are problem kids who their parients are trying to keep in line, so they have a tendency toward bad behavior. So having the occasional riot at a Christian school certainly isn't surprising. Also, doesn't reflect on all Christian schools, or all Christians.

So acting badly is only hypocritical if you're christian?

And christian schools are now the dumping ground for kids with problems?

IMO we should be surprised at ANY riot at ANY school. But that's just me, what do I know?

No, that's not at all what I'm saying. Just that people tend to assume that anyone who uses the word Christian ought to always be a model of good behavior, and there are lots of different reasons why that assumption is simplistic and inaccurate. I was merely pointing out a couple reasons more that could be added to the list.

I think we should be saddened by ANY riot, at ANY school, but perhaps not always surprised. There are certain places and certain rivalries that just do have more problems.

As a Christian school coach, we do see a lot of people that think we are a "reform school".

Most of the kids here are members of the church that the school is tied to.

It is rare (at least in our school) that the others enroll more than a year. But I have seen a lot of problems arise from them. Same problems that they brought to the table when they were in a public school the year before.

On the flip side, yes, the Christian kids do have their share of problems, they still are kids.

Last I checked, christian kids go to public schools too. And I think that, yes, christian schools should be held to a higher standard.

Did you really have to black ball them? :p

Seriously, nice work. :)

I agree 100% with this statement.

I said I wasn't going to enter into this, but here goes.
1. Some Christian/Parochial schools have coaches, players, and fans that are jerks.
2. Some public schools have coaches, players, and fans that are jerks.
3. Some Christian/Parochial schools have coaches, players, and fans that are class acts.
4. Some public schools have coaches, players, and fans that are class acts.
5. Some games with Christian/Parochial schools have been a royal pain in the butt.
6. Some games with public schools have been a royal pain in the butt.
7. Some games with Christian/Parochial schools have been a joy to work.
8. Some games with public schools have been a joy to work.

Should Christian schools be held to a higher standard. IMO yes...because of the mission of the school, my Judeo-Christan value sytem, and my understanding of how a Christian is supposed to conduct themesleves on and off the court. That said, all coaches, adminstrators, school personnel, and teachers in all schools are held to a higher standard because of their positions of influence. AND AS LONG AS WE ARE ON THE SUBJECT, WE REFEREES SHOULD BE HELD TO A HIGHER STANDARD! How many times have you been in a ref room and heard the vulgarity and filth spewing freely -- the same stuff that we would toss a coach or a player or fan for in a second and never look back. Last year my son and I were working a tournament. At the referee gathering place the guys were acting like a bunch of jr. high idiots with fithly jokes, horrible language, and bad behavior. My son who was a sophomore at the time watched guys who officiate his HS games and asked me, "Dad, how am I supposed to take those guys seriously? Everything they tell us in a pre-game speech not to do they were doing and saying?" The guys were acting like rejects from jr high. The kid had a point, you know. So before classifying any type of school as being better or worse, take a long look at the person staring back at you in the mirror and ask what kind of example you've been setting on and off the court when you're combing your hair before going on the court next game!

This is just one of the reasons I am thinking about giving up officiating. If not the crowd, its the coaches and players. No one has respect for officials or the game of basketball. I love the game, but after doing this for 10 years I have to think very hard is it all worth it.

Hang in there, Clay. It goes with the whistle, unfortunately.There are a lot of good coaches, players and fans out there. It's really a case of the <b>silent majority</b> versus the <b>vocal minority</b>. Unfortunately, one side gets noticed a heckuva lot more than the other.

Just remember.... they're booing the stripes, not the person.

I was talking with a friend last night, who said he could never referee because of the "heat" you take from other people. I think some people just can't take it. It takes a special breed of person to "feed" off the pressure, which I think I do in a sense. Or it just doesn't bother me what people think, when I know I'm always in the right. haha. Clay, I think, since you've been doing this 10 years, you must be cut out for it!! Keep on keepin on.

Did two -7th gr boys games last night. Between the games, a parent walks by our chairs tableside, said we did a good game but that we werent paid enough for the "grief we got".
I turned to pard, asked,"did you hear much out there?". I kinda remember a couple comments from fans(the usual, "He was fouled"), couches grumbled a little, but really an overall quiet game re: complaints.
I guess I let fans comments go in/out my ears and forget them as nonsense, and was stunned by that parents comment to us(not the compliment part, I heard that LOL).
Focus on the game and all else mostly fades away. Its like if you ever played a sport- during the game you dont even see/hear fans-just the game. Officiating BB, Ftball, Baseball is the same way for me...

Yes I would have held the whistle for the try, UNLESS the shooter had a clear try because the defender stopped due to being close to or affected by the fight.

I also think it's ok if for the purpose of preventing someone from being injured, you grab a player, especially when they don't know the imminent danger.