where to get help as a new ref

[Mountaineer]

The mentor idea is by far the best idea out there. Let me take it one step (or two) farther. Ask this mentor to REALLY take you under his wing. Travel with him for some of his games - sit in on the pregame, halftime and post game meetings. Don't get wrapped up in watching the game so you can really pay attention to their mechanics. I'm not saying don't watch the game but be sure to take in their movements too. Ask this mentor to go with you to some of YOUR games. Critique your pregame, halftime and postgames as well. I found when I was a younger official that many older refs were hesitant to really offer helpful criticism - so tell this guy to really help you he has to be honest with his observations. But you'll never ever get better unless you really work on the things that are brought to your attention.

BTW, I still ask people what I can do to get better. You're never too old or too good to improve.