What to tell Refs to enforce a "safe" game

[mrgusb]

Ths, but don't read too deeply into this.

My boys have told me (we face these refs b4) that they get all banged up by the defense driving in the lane.

Other refs (in our league) call the appropriate fouls....
but there are these 2 that allow it.

I'm looking for the right, respectful, diplomatic msg. to remind them...this isn't the NBA...we don't need our boys to get mauled.