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Never been yelled at...thank goodness. But I've been talked to very sternly several times at camps in the past. And it never even occurred to me that it might be in the vicinity of "OK" for me to yell at someone else. As many have already said in different ways, I can't think of a more unprofessional way to handle things. First take care of the business at hand...the game. Then iron out your personal differences on your own time. Definitely a different mind set from anything I've come in contact with...
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I had a game where the home team was making a run under 3:00 left to tie the game.....during a fast-break I was L and A1 dropped a sweet pass to A4 who caught it and dunked it w/out dribbling - cut it to 1pt game, crowd went nuts. Unfortunately C waved it off for traveling - I literally said to myself - "you're f-ing kidding me!". I thought it was terrible; trying not to sell out my partner, I told Coach A that he had :30 to say whatever he wanted to me without penalty (during the timeout that immediately followed). He vented - I said "you're still in the game - don't let that one call bother you - let's play".
After the game, T asked C what he saw. C said he thought it was a travel - T claimed he was straightlined, I said nothing (it was bad enough that I thought the supervisor might get a call after the game...). As T and I got into the car after the game - we BOTH agreed it was a horrible call and we were shocked that he called it. I guess the moral of the story is that you have to handle judgement calls and mechanics/rules breakdowns differently. If a dual-area call is made that is bad judgement, you can ask about what the calling official saw - but you can't jump him for it - it's his judgement (however bad it is). If it's a mechanics/rules issue, then I think you can be more forceful about addressing it. I don't think yelling does anything to solve or stop the situation from occuring again - you've got to find a way to either survive the remainder of the game or agree how you're going to handle the situation the next time it occurs (if in fact you work with that same person again).
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All at the same time, I don't have much to say about this and I have a lot to say about this.
I often get the feeling that we think we can do no wrong. The things that are my pet peeves are: 1. The non-calling official having a close, personal, lengthy conversation with a coach after another official gives them a T. I don't have to be close to a coach to say, "You must remain seated..." and in college they can just simmer for a while. IMO, it is not my job to explain what my fellow official called. Many times, it is obvious and going to the coach is just to lend an ear. A coach doesn't get my ear when he gets a T; I will listen to him all game during other situations. 2. Lead calling across the paint on normal, ordinary, garden-variety drives from the C's side which often result in a double whistle. IMO, the L might as well broadcast, "I'm watching the ball." 3. Calls that are reaching and aren't made to save the crew. I was in a playoff game this season (two man) and my partner called traveling from the trail on a play that was literally about a foot from the endline and outside the paint on my side of the basket. In other words, two normal steps and I could have smacked both players upside the head! 4. Officials who have "bad" game awareness. I know you are probably saying, "What the heck is that?" Team A is coming back from being behind by 20 and an official changes the way the game has been called up to this point by making a call or a no-call. IMO, that official has just been swept into the emotion of the game and that "bad" game awareness is bad for the game. By the way, I did yell at my fellow official about one of these "peeves" this year, but it was my buddy. He yelled back at me, like we often do, and we worked the second half. One thing I take pride in is that I don't think other officials do a  when they are working with me. I always want to put the crew first, for the good of the game, and I don't ever big-time anyone. I think we could all do the game a favor and be honest with each other. We have to be accepting though. I thought everything was OK with my season until I saw the tape of my last high school game in high definition. I didn't necessarily like all of my movement. I have to "go into the lab" and re-invent the wheel. I will never be satisfied until I reach perfection. So, I will never be satisfied until I quit.  Yelling at someone is far from the worst thing I've done in a basketball game. It happened years ago, but I will share if anyone is interested. It isn't something I'm proud of, but it happened and I moved on a long time ago.
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I have a problem with the assumption that your partner is explaining your T if he is communicating with the coach at this point. You have no idea what's being said. As stated many times in this forum, a 'T' is just another foul, so it shouldn't change the basic interaction with the coach. S/He has received his/her penalty, so it should be business as usual from that point. I personally don't care what my partner(s) says to a coach. That's something I've never concerned myself with. Even if my partner is selling me out lock, stock, and barrel, it has no affect at all in how I continue to call the game nor will it affect how I interact with the coaches. To piggy back on your "seeing yourself on tape" statement. There is definitely nothing like seeing yourself on a TV screen to reduce the swelling of one's head. I was fortunate to officiate a scrimmage at a D1 college before the season started and they provided the officials with DVD's of the game. I then had an early season HS game broadcast on the local ED channel. So I was able to do my fine-tuning early in the season.
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