If I may say one other statement. When the second T was given and she left the gym, I did hear one gentleman yell this, and I am assuming it was directed at the coach "You had to let an official take care of what you should have done at the begining of the year" So I am certian she had been trouble throughout the basketball season.

I've heard similar remarks from parents. Not real often, of course. They realize when someone is more than just a problem and it's strange to think that no one has tightened the leash when it was necessary. Waiting for the officials to do it isn't fair to the official. The other part is that what will fry on official one night won't even faze another official on another night.