I think some of the differences we're discussing here may be local or regional. It's very possible that in one locale the attitude toward keeping the jersey tucked in is much different from what it is 1000 miles away. I also think it depends a lot on the coaches' attitudes, and that may vary.
I do think girls tend to hold a grudge in longer. Things can skate along fine, and all of a sudden one lashes out. I've seen that, too. Boys are more open about conflict. Generally. Any particular individual may do things differently but as a rule, I've seen this pattern too.
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