Advice, Please, on a Coach Problem

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Originally posted by rainmaker

Do I ask the commissioner if the coach is still the same? I can't call the school and ask, buecause I don't know what his name is. If it is the same guy how do I approach the situation?

Don't call the commissioner or the school. Chances are, the guy is still there and that's why he's sending you back. But it doesn't matter if he's there or not. Approach the same way that you would any other game. Don't change a thing about the way you officiate or how much crap you do or don't take from him.

I read the article in the eReferee pages about handling difficult coaches. My question is, What do you specifically think about and say to yourself when you are anticipating coach problems?

Always be prepared for coach problems but don't anticipate or look for them.

What do I say, or NOT say to my partner?

I would probably tell my partner, just so he/she can observe you and let you know if it's affecting your game.

If I ask the commissioner and it is the same guy, should I ask to be excused, or tackle it head-on? How do I tackle it head-on?

Again, just treat it like any other game.

If I get to the game and he brings up the past, what should I do, what should I say? What should I NOT do or NOT say?

Just simply say, "Coach, we're not going there." If he persists, give him the stop sign. If he persists after that, bust his ass and get away from him. Hopefully, your partner will get over there quickly.

Remember, if you go looking for trouble, you're sure to find it. Good luck!