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JRutledge Fri Dec 29, 2000 03:54am

I understood.
 
I know what your point was. I just did not agree with it.


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Originally posted by BigDave
Rut,

I GET THE POINT ABOUT THE BELLY THING. By the way, I'm 6'2", 185, so not a problem here.

My point was not about the bellies. LOL, that sounds funny!


BigDave Fri Dec 29, 2000 09:48am

I can accept that.

Made for some interesting conversation though. :)

Gary Brendemuehl Fri Dec 29, 2000 09:56am

Re: Helped me
 
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Originally posted by JRutledge
I am one of the few officials that do not have a bear belly or look like they struggle to get up and down the court.
Given the choice between a beer belly and a bear belly (the belly of a large heavy mammal having long shaggy hair, rudimentary tail, and plantigrade feet and feeding largely on fruit and insects as well as flesh), I'd take the beer belly; at least getting that one can be enjoyable.

bob jenkins Fri Dec 29, 2000 10:42am

Re: Re: Helped me
 
Quote:

Originally posted by Gary Brendemuehl
Quote:

Originally posted by JRutledge
I am one of the few officials that do not have a bear belly or look like they struggle to get up and down the court.
Given the choice between a beer belly and a bear belly (the belly of a large heavy mammal having long shaggy hair, rudimentary tail, and plantigrade feet and feeding largely on fruit and insects as well as flesh), I'd take the beer belly; at least getting that one can be enjoyable.

Either one is bad, but showing up with a bare belly is even worse (unless you're part of the half-time entertainment).

Tim Roden Fri Dec 29, 2000 01:08pm

BigDave, I think you are the one making a mountain out of a mole hill here. J has apperently done somthing right in his short career as a basketball official and I think what that is is his physicial conditioning. There is nothing wrong with having overweight officials in your organization but the the ones who are the "right" size have an advantage over those who are overweight.

BTW, every evaluation form I have ever seen starts off by having a question on physicial appearance. Second question is over the uniform.

BigDave Fri Dec 29, 2000 09:37pm

I agree with Rut!
 
I have never disagreed that weight/physical appearance is a MAJOR factor in this business. It is probably THE most important aspect of being evaluated. OK, is that clear now?

My point was/is/has been/always will be that Rut was bashing other officials with his "bear belly" comment. Am I the only one that felt this way? Everyone else thought is was just fine to downtalk other officials? In my association, you just don't do that. Yes, we have some fat asses. They know who they are. But we would NEVER compare our "slim, athletic" selves to these guys the way Rut did. Wouldn't it have been a little more professional to say that "we have some folks that could work on their conditioning a little."?

Guess the mole hill just got a little taller... :)

[Edited by BigDave on Dec 29th, 2000 at 08:41 PM]

mick Fri Dec 29, 2000 10:19pm

Nah!
 
Quote:

Originally posted by BigDave
I have never disagreed that weight/physical appearance is a MAJOR factor in this business. It is probably THE most important aspect of being evaluated. OK, is that clear now?

My point was/is/has been/always will be that Rut was bashing other officials with his "bear belly" comment. Am I the only one that felt this way? Everyone else thought is was just fine to downtalk other officials? In my association, you just don't do that. Yes, we have some fat asses. They know who they are. But we would NEVER compare our "slim, athletic" selves to these guys the way Rut did. Wouldn't it have been a little more professional to say that "we have some folks that could work on their conditioning a little."?

Guess the mole hill just got a little taller... :)

[Edited by BigDave on Dec 29th, 2000 at 08:41 PM]

Big Dave,
That is just Rut.
He is who he is.
If they look like a fat duck, walk like a fat duck, quack like a fat duck, they probably are fat ducks... including the bear bellies.
mick


Peter Devana Fri Dec 29, 2000 11:10pm

Big Dave
 
Agree with you completely re: professionalism and how we speak about fellow officials- some people will have to learn that you can't get by on "looks' alone-Professionalism-Proper Attitude- Receptiveness to Criticism and Courage are all attributes that are pre-requisites to progress in this game!

JRutledge Fri Dec 29, 2000 11:25pm

I am not they person.
 
The beer belly comment, came from a assignor that said this to a entire room of officials. So if that offends you, take it to the people that do the hiring, I am just passing the information. And I know for a fact that assignors told some people to lose specific weight, like "10 pounds or else." Now that might be harsh and may rub some people the wrong way, but that is what was said. Take it or leave it.



Quote:

Originally posted by BigDave
I have never disagreed that weight/physical appearance is a MAJOR factor in this business. It is probably THE most important aspect of being evaluated. OK, is that clear now?

My point was/is/has been/always will be that Rut was bashing other officials with his "bear belly" comment. Am I the only one that felt this way? Everyone else thought is was just fine to downtalk other officials? In my association, you just don't do that. Yes, we have some fat asses. They know who they are. But we would NEVER compare our "slim, athletic" selves to these guys the way Rut did. Wouldn't it have been a little more professional to say that "we have some folks that could work on their conditioning a little."?

Guess the mole hill just got a little taller... :)

[Edited by BigDave on Dec 29th, 2000 at 08:41 PM]


Peter Devana Fri Dec 29, 2000 11:34pm

My,My Rut
You are sure easy to get to- coaches must have a field day with you-Have fun

JRutledge Fri Dec 29, 2000 11:36pm

Re: I do not know what happen here!!!!
 
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[Edited by JRutledge on Dec 29th, 2000 at 10:44 PM]

JRutledge Fri Dec 29, 2000 11:43pm

Wow!!!!
 
:rolleyes:

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A question was asked, I answered it and I am not the one talking about how upset it made me because you or anyone else answered a question. Think what you want, I have information you can take it or leave it. If it does not apply to you, then let it go, if it does maybe that is why you were offended. If I am fat, I am fat.

Ask anyone that works with me, I almost always ask what I did wrong or what did they see I need to improve on. I even ask about calls. There is nothing about wrong with critisism, it is how you take it. There is nothing to get upset about, and you got upset. I am sitting back and having a laugh about the whole situation.



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Originally posted by Peter Devana
My,My Rut
You are sure easy to get to- coaches must have a field day with you-Have fun

[Edited by Admin on Jan 3rd, 2001 at 05:03 PM]

Peter Devana Sat Dec 30, 2000 12:44am

Don't lose your cool ref if I'm getting to you why don't you give me a T ? Rut , seriously , you are just digging a big hole for yourself in full view of your peers- give it a rest!

JRutledge Sat Dec 30, 2000 01:13am

Helllllooooooooooooo!!!!!!!!!!
 
Quote:

Comments deleted - please abide by forum guidelines.
Peace!!!! ;)


Quote:

Originally posted by Peter Devana
Don't lose your cool ref if I'm getting to you why don't you give me a T ? Rut , seriously , you are just digging a big hole for yourself in full view of your peers- give it a rest!
[Edited by Admin on Jan 3rd, 2001 at 05:06 PM]

Peter Devana Sat Dec 30, 2000 02:09am

I hope seriously, for the game, that your evaluator has been monitoring your diatrabe and gets you out of the game.


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