Conversation with Coach

[rainmaker]

I went to watch a women's college game, and I noticed something that I have a question about. We all know the new mechanic is for the calling official to go tableside after reporting, so that the coach can "talk" a little. What I noticed in this game was that there was quite a bit of conversation between the ref and the coach. I know in hs we are told to listen, say one quick thing, or maybe two, and then get away, especially during a live ball.

So how is the conversation different in college? It's still a year or two (or more!) away for me, but I want to start thinking about it now, so that I can handle it when the time comes. What does the coach say, and how does the ref respond? Can anyone post some examples?