had to do it!
 

Team A up 87 -14. 2mins 30 left.

After a Team B time out coach says to me -"I am putting in the subs to practice the press". I respond "you,coach the Team".

This league has rule you cannot press if you are ahead 40 points,the penalty is a bench technical. Also if the team down 40 points wants to end the game they can choose to do so.

The subs come on set up in full court press. The ball comes in bounds by Team B.

Whistle - Technical Foul team A! Coach- I told you I was going practice the press. My response - you did; but, I guess I forgot to mention I was going to enforce the rules of your league!

I know it was bit of baiting by not reminding him of the league 40 point rule: but, really 87 - 14 and you are going to press!

It's not your responsibility to remind him of the rule. He should know that as a coach. This wasn't their first game, was it?

You did the right thing by enforcing the rule.

It's not a bit of baiting it's all baiting. I wouldn't recommend this at any level. You should have reminded him of the rule when he said it or just called the T and your response should have been to cite the rule (I would would have gone with option #1).

Yep -- or, depending on the temperature of the game, asked coach B if he minded. Or, have B end the game and then play a 2:30 scrimmage with pressing allowed.

Exactly Bob. Why, why, WHY would OP do this? I consider this a sort of power trip on the OP's part - a "I'll show him" moment.

2:30 left and up by an insane amount. Why extend the time left until the game ends? Ask him to talk to Coach B about it beforehand and let them decide if they want to move forward or not. This is the type of thing that the more experienced officials warn us less experienced officials about - in a game where you are not having any trouble, especially a blowout, don't do anything to piss off the coach.

he had a T
 

My partner had given him a T in the first half for excessive demonstrations using violation signals and yelling out for violations. He was talked to about this and still took a T.
He yelled constantly at his players and was visibly upset when they did not execute the offence correctly. he had given the scores table trouble about team fouls not going up fast enough and was talked to about that.
I have officiated for many years at high levels and now in my late sixties and do some games to have fun and stay in shape.

Yes, I was wrong in, baiting him, a bit - and feel just a little bad for doing it, However, I will recover! I am not sure if the kids that play for this coach will.

Having to play under his regime would be a daunting task. I know both my partner(a 22 year veteran) and I had enough of him in one game!

Yes, I would give one of officials I supervise a knuckle rapping for doing this: but, I had to do it!!!

I'm still short of qualifying this as baiting. I'm interpreting "you, coach the team" as kind of like saying "you do you coach" and assuming he knew the rule.

Since when is it the official's responsibility to remind a coach of the rules?

Seriously, what am I missing here?

I'm guessing this is a VERY low level game. I would remind in these kinds of games.

I completely can relate. However we aren't the moral police, the parent's can take it up with him. I honestly don't understand how some parent's allow some coaches to behave the way they do. Some of the coaches I see when I work, if my kid were playing, I would get kicked out because I would cuss the out and treat him like the punk he is. Then I would tell my kid to get in the car, go home and the next day I would demand the administration gets a coach that can be a role model.

But hey, in sports people think its OK to act like an animal.

Say what? We remind coaches, players, table, spectators, etc.. all the time of the rules. (when team's reach 7 fould don't we remind them of the bonus free throw? when a coach is out of time outs, don't we remind them of that? During a timeout, don't we remind the teams at the first horn? When bench personnel are standing during regular live play, don't we remind them to sit? etc.)

When the coach said that he was going to practice the press, the official definitely should have offered a simple reminder of the league mercy rule. Preventative officiating all day long.

We'll agree to disagree. We're not babysitters. When it gets to seven fouls I don't say anything to the coaches. I say "line it up ladies/gentlemen, one-and-one."

This is a situation where the coach should be expected to know the rule. And a coach that actually has a problem with being T'd up while leading by over 70 points has issues beyond my control.

Nice information to have when first telling this story.

We always use preventative officiating whenever possible. You were handed a scenario on a platter to use preventative officiating and you chose to take the low road simply to show the coach that you know the rule and he didn't and rub it in his face.

These "gotcha!" calls only tick people off and undermine your credibility as an official.

Not the path I would have chosen, IMO.

Ok maybe he deserved it then :)

None of the things you mentioned are friendly reminders. They are rules that we play by. Once 7 team fouls, we shoot bonus. Notify of no time outs remaining, that is only time we are required to say anything. First horn is a rule required notification and rules dictate how we proceed in doing that. And players standing should be one warning and a bench T the next time, not a reminder.

And with all the info we have now about the coach being a jerk and already having had one T, I would have let him have his rope as well. Gotta get along before you go along.