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bas2456 Mon Jan 11, 2016 09:33pm

New Wisconsin Rule
 
Wondering if officials in Wisconsin have received any directives on these new "sportsmanship" rules.

Jimmy Carlton's Blogs: WIAA rules seek to curb student chants such as "air ball" and "scoreboard"

JRutledge Mon Jan 11, 2016 09:43pm

Please have this foolishness stay in Wisconsin.

Peace

bas2456 Mon Jan 11, 2016 09:48pm

Quote:

Originally Posted by JRutledge (Post 976258)
Please have this foolishness stay in Wisconsin.

Peace

Cheers to that.

Nevadaref Mon Jan 11, 2016 10:04pm

Quote:

Originally Posted by JRutledge (Post 976258)
Please have this foolishness stay in Wisconsin.

Seems like this state is doing as it wishes.
Do you have a problem with that? ;):eek:

JRutledge Mon Jan 11, 2016 10:08pm

Quote:

Originally Posted by Nevadaref (Post 976266)
Seems like this state is doing as it wishes.
Do you have a problem with that? ;):eek:

Nope, I have no issues with what they are doing, just keep that mess up there. But you probably do not know they border our state. They can do what they want as I do not have a license. See I do not brow beat what other states should do because it is not in the rulebook. BTW, this is not a playing rule, but an administrative action. States have been doing that for years. ;)

Peace

Nevadaref Mon Jan 11, 2016 10:16pm

Quote:

Originally Posted by JRutledge (Post 976267)
Nope, I have no issues with what they are doing, just keep that mess up there. But you probably do not know they border our state.

Do you really think that I don't know US geography?
I've driven from Chicago to Madison.

Quote:

Originally Posted by JRutledge (Post 976267)
They can do what they want as I do not have a license.

And if you did would that somehow change the situation and not allow them to do this? You are silly.

Quote:

Originally Posted by JRutledge (Post 976267)
See I do not brow beat what other states should do because it is not in the rulebook. BTW, this is not a playing rule, but an administrative action. States have been doing that for years. ;)

Yep, it is administrative not a playing rule such as what type of foul gets assessed during a game. Now what was the situation in the other thread?...hmmm

JRutledge Mon Jan 11, 2016 10:34pm

Quote:

Originally Posted by Nevadaref (Post 976268)
Do you really think that I don't know US geography?
I've driven from Chicago to Madison.


And if you did would that somehow change the situation and not allow them to do this? You are silly.



Yep, it is administrative not a playing rule such as what type of foul gets assessed during a game. Now what was the situation in the other thread?...hmmm

The point of my comment is I hope the IHSA or NF does not think this is a good idea. Maybe if they want to encourage those to not use certain terms, but please do not put this on the officials. I am not you, I do not care what other states do with their rules or officials. I do not have to work there.

Peace

bas2456 Mon Jan 11, 2016 10:55pm

I was hoping to hear from Wisconsin officials. Rich, you're an official and an assignor up there...have you heard anything from the state?

Rich Mon Jan 11, 2016 11:32pm

New Wisconsin Rule
 
Nope. The tweet/suspension was the first I heard of any of this. This has nothing to do with my role as an official.

I will say this. If the state is saying that this kind of thing by students is not acceptable then maybe the line needs to be redrawn for the adults in the stands and the coaches on the bench, too.

Mark Padgett Mon Jan 11, 2016 11:33pm

When I was in HS (a few centuries ago) and an opponent was going to shoot a FT, we would chant:

SEE THAT BASKET
SEE THAT BALL
C'MON STUPID
HIT THE WALL

Pretty much all the boys from our school would chant this at home games but not on the road. We realized we were outnumbered on the road so we didn't want to deal with the ticked-off other kids.

packersowner Mon Jan 11, 2016 11:33pm

To me this should be a directive to game management. If I hear the crowd yelling, "start the bus up" I am going to assume they are letting the bus drivers know the game is about over and in Wisconsin, you want to get on a warm bus in January.

bas2456 Mon Jan 11, 2016 11:56pm

Quote:

Originally Posted by packersowner (Post 976289)
To me this should be a directive to game management. If I hear the crowd yelling, "start the bus up" I am going to assume they are letting the bus drivers know the game is about over and in Wisconsin, you want to get on a warm bus in January.


Ain't that the truth!! There were a couple mornings it was -40 with wind chill when I lived in Wisconsin. And that wasn't even up north.

Even if a directive is sent to game management, how reasonable is their chance to successfully handle a crowd of students??


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Refhoop Tue Jan 12, 2016 01:26am

This is to be expected when mommies are running things and their babies get hurt feelings during a game.
Do any of you know a dad in America that cares about such nonsense?

Rich Tue Jan 12, 2016 01:37am

Quote:

Originally Posted by Refhoop (Post 976301)
This is to be expected when mommies are running things and their babies get hurt feelings during a game.
Do any of you know a dad in America that cares about such nonsense?

Let's just say that if my daughter posted a tweet like the one that started this whole thing that her relationship with social media would change until she was no longer living in my house.

I also want to mention that there is nothing new about these directions. The WIAA has sent out a sportsmanship reminder like this to schools' athletic directors since the late 1990s.

Because one school sent the memo to a student-athlete who then decided to post the memo on Twitter along with encouragement for the WIAA to consume bovine excrement -- that's why it's getting all this press. And why the player got suspended.

For me, it's the language, I have to admit. And I'm someone who isn't all that wound up about people using swear words in general. But saying "EAT SH-T WIAA" in a tweet is over the top. I couldn't get away with saying that and wouldn't want to. And yet that tweet is still up, days later. Perhaps if there was even a shred of remorse on the part of the player (she gave a sorry-but-not-sorry apology and left the tweet up) none of this would've been blown out of proportion by *everyone.*

We got a rope. We got a tree. All we need is a referee.

Raymond Tue Jan 12, 2016 08:26am

Quote:

Originally Posted by bas2456 (Post 976254)
Wondering if officials in Wisconsin have received any directives on these new "sportsmanship" rules.

Jimmy Carlton's Blogs: WIAA rules seek to curb student chants such as "air ball" and "scoreboard"

Virginia could institute the same regulations and it wouldn't affect me as an official.

frezer11 Tue Jan 12, 2016 09:05am

One of terms they want to eliminate is "sieve." I know what the term means, can picture my grandpa yelling "This damn thing is leaking like a sieve!" in response to a crappy radiator they had. But not sure I get this one, I don't know if I'm too old to understand why this is a relevant term to chant, or perhaps too young. Anyone know what they'd be chanting that in response to?

gslefeb Tue Jan 12, 2016 09:32am

Hockey
 
Quote:

Originally Posted by frezer11 (Post 976318)
One of terms they want to eliminate is "sieve." I know what the term means, can picture my grandpa yelling "This damn thing is leaking like a sieve!" in response to a crappy radiator they had. But not sure I get this one, I don't know if I'm too old to understand why this is a relevant term to chant, or perhaps too young. Anyone know what they'd be chanting that in response to?


Said to the opponent's goalie

SD Referee Tue Jan 12, 2016 10:00am

Quote:

Originally Posted by bas2456 (Post 976254)
Wondering if officials in Wisconsin have received any directives on these new "sportsmanship" rules.

Jimmy Carlton's Blogs: WIAA rules seek to curb student chants such as "air ball" and "scoreboard"

What a joke!!!!! Just another step in the wussification process that is sweeping this country.

Are kids and their parents so soft that when they get called out by a student section their fragile egos are affected for life?

I hope the kids ignore this and keep the chants alive!

frezer11 Tue Jan 12, 2016 11:31am

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Originally Posted by gslefeb (Post 976320)
Said to the opponent's goalie

Ah ha! Thank you

BatteryPowered Tue Jan 12, 2016 11:35am

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Originally Posted by SD Referee (Post 976324)
What a joke!!!!! Just another step in the wussification process that is sweeping this country.

Are kids and their parents so soft that when they get called out by a student section their fragile egos are affected for life?

I hope the kids ignore this and keep the chants alive!

This!!!

Now...if they wanted to pass such an rule/guideline to stop girls from yelling "BALL...BALL...BALL...BALL..." all the time around here I am behind them 100%. I often want to say "Yep...a big orange one." to them when they start.

BlueDevilRef Tue Jan 12, 2016 12:03pm

Quote:

Originally Posted by SD Referee (Post 976324)
What a joke!!!!! Just another step in the wussification process that is sweeping this country.



Are kids and their parents so soft that when they get called out by a student section their fragile egos are affected for life?



I hope the kids ignore this and keep the chants alive!


I had a mom stand up in stands last night and yell at the student section. Home mangmt went to student section and had them all move to end of gym nearest their bench , it was the home teams fans. This was a JH boys game. And the kids were just being kids, nothing unsporting etc. I thought it very silly. This mom was probably 40 and she couldn't take it? Very very silly.


I wish I had a cool signature

Adam Tue Jan 12, 2016 12:27pm

Quote:

Originally Posted by Rich (Post 976302)
Let's just say that if my daughter posted a tweet like the one that started this whole thing that her relationship with social media would change until she was no longer living in my house.

I also want to mention that there is nothing new about these directions. The WIAA has sent out a sportsmanship reminder like this to schools' athletic directors since the late 1990s.

Because one school sent the memo to a student-athlete who then decided to post the memo on Twitter along with encouragement for the WIAA to consume bovine excrement -- that's why it's getting all this press. And why the player got suspended.

For me, it's the language, I have to admit. And I'm someone who isn't all that wound up about people using swear words in general. But saying "EAT SH-T WIAA" in a tweet is over the top. I couldn't get away with saying that and wouldn't want to. And yet that tweet is still up, days later. Perhaps if there was even a shred of remorse on the part of the player (she gave a sorry-but-not-sorry apology and left the tweet up) none of this would've been blown out of proportion by *everyone.*

We got a rope. We got a tree. All we need is a referee.

Yup yup yup, to all of the above.

Refhoop Tue Jan 12, 2016 01:36pm

Quote:

Originally Posted by BlueDevilRef (Post 976338)
I had a mom stand up in stands last night and yell at the student section. Home mangmt went to student section and had them all move to end of gym nearest their bench , it was the home teams fans. This was a JH boys game. And the kids were just being kids, nothing unsporting etc. I thought it very silly. This mom was probably 40 and she couldn't take it? Very very silly.


I wish I had a cool signature


After they get all the teachers, coaches and fans to be positive - we're next.



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SCalScoreKeeper Tue Jan 12, 2016 02:31pm

Why was this even sent to the Student-Athletes? The WIAA changes are way over the top.As long as nothing said is personal or derogatory why do we care? The suspension is warranted in my mind for the language used in the tweet.If she wanted to say the WIAA changes are stupid/ridiculous that's fine but she's gotta learn profane tweets have consequences.

JMUplayer Tue Jan 12, 2016 02:45pm

Back in the day when opposing cheerleaders took the floor we'd chant
1,2,3,4 get the cattle off the floor and start mooing at them....

Good clean harmless fun......:D

Adam Tue Jan 12, 2016 02:56pm

Quote:

Originally Posted by JMUplayer (Post 976377)
Back in the day when opposing cheerleaders took the floor we'd chant
1,2,3,4 get the cattle off the floor and start mooing at them....

Good clean harmless fun......:D

You honestly think that was harmless?

Rich Tue Jan 12, 2016 02:57pm

Quote:

Originally Posted by JMUplayer (Post 976377)
Back in the day when opposing cheerleaders took the floor we'd chant

1,2,3,4 get the cattle off the floor and start mooing at them....



Good clean harmless fun......:D


That's disgusting.

SCalScoreKeeper Tue Jan 12, 2016 03:48pm

Quote:

Originally Posted by JMUplayer (Post 976377)
Back in the day when opposing cheerleaders took the floor we'd chant
1,2,3,4 get the cattle off the floor and start mooing at them....

Good clean harmless fun......:D

absolutely not-At my school we would put a stop to that-home or away.

Altor Tue Jan 12, 2016 07:19pm

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Originally Posted by Adam (Post 976379)
You honestly think that was harmless?

I have the same reaction to things like "sieve" or "A rope, a tree, ..." It's directed to a specific person and is intended to be demeaning (or even a threat). It has no place in high school sports.

"Start the bus up.", "Scoreboard", "C'mon stupid, hit the wall" - those don't bother me in nearly the same way. Although the last one does call a specific player stupid, so I may have to rethink that one.

Adam Tue Jan 12, 2016 07:25pm

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Originally Posted by Altor (Post 976415)
I have the same reaction to things like "sieve" or "A rope, a tree, ..." It's directed to a specific person and is intended to be demeaning (or even a threat). It has no place in high school sports.

"Start the bus up.", "Scoreboard", "C'mon stupid, hit the wall" - those don't bother me in nearly the same way. Although the last one does call a specific player stupid, so I may have to rethink that one.

Some of that stuff is fine for heckling adult baseball players ("sieve" in particular). I really don't have much of a problem with "sieve", it's at least performance related.

The cheerleader heckling, though, bothers me as a parent (teenage daughter)more than anything.

I remember one of the guys on my high school basketball team "moo'd" at the cheerleaders (at a pep rally no less) and the whole team got to run extra in the next practice.

Welpe Tue Jan 12, 2016 07:47pm

Quote:

Originally Posted by JMUplayer (Post 976377)
Back in the day when opposing cheerleaders took the floor we'd chant
1,2,3,4 get the cattle off the floor and start mooing at them....

Good clean harmless fun......:D

Good grief. Even as a a-hole teenager I didn't chant crap like that.

WhistlesAndStripes Tue Jan 12, 2016 07:53pm

Quote:

Originally Posted by Welpe (Post 976419)
Good grief. Even as a a-hole teenager I didn't chant crap like that.

Only because you weren't smart enough to think of it? :D:rolleyes::p

bigjohn Wed Jan 13, 2016 08:11am

I swear this is true, College of Wooster girls volleyball team had C.O.W on the leg of their shorts. 1981 but still seemed wrong! They were not tiny girls mostly.

SD Referee Wed Jan 13, 2016 09:44am

Quote:

Originally Posted by Altor (Post 976415)
I have the same reaction to things like "sieve" or "A rope, a tree, ..." It's directed to a specific person and is intended to be demeaning (or even a threat). It has no place in high school sports.

"Start the bus up.", "Scoreboard", "C'mon stupid, hit the wall" - those don't bother me in nearly the same way. Although the last one does call a specific player stupid, so I may have to rethink that one.

So you have a problem with a group of kids calling a goalie a "sieve"? When you are letting a lot of goals get past you, you are indeed a "sieve".

I don't know where some of you soft wimps come from, but it seems like your kind is taking over the world. We can't say anything that even one person might interpret as demeaning. You pick on a kid for one second and you are a bully guilty of bullying. There are already plenty of leagues/sports for youth that don't keep score because Little Johnny or Little Sally might get beat and have their ego ruined for life.

People in this world need to relax, grow a thicker skin, and learn to ignore other people. I'm so tired of the "offended" crowd screaming to get their way.

Altor Wed Jan 13, 2016 11:03am

Believe me when I say that I've never been part of the "offended" crowd. I'd never suggest to turn off the scoreboard.

Calling an NHL goalkeeper a sieve is one thing. Saying that to a 14-year-old in a high school setting is simply not appropriate. The NFHS and every one of its member organizations tell us to teach/preach sportsmanship to our youth. This is not good sportsmanship.

JRutledge Wed Jan 13, 2016 11:24am

Kids are going to sometimes cross the line. That is what adults are for. That is what teachers and administrators are for. And if you think kids will not call a big girl in their mind names from the cheerleading squad, we are even more naive. I agree it is not appropriate, but this outrage is funny. Kids when I was coming up said a lot worse and then some. But we knew that if we said those things out loud we would likely get in trouble.

All I hope is that we do not have to police this when half of the things said we will not really be paying attention to or understand. There are jokes between schools that it takes awhile for someone not at those schools to understand. Let the AD and Principal deal with this stuff. Keep us out of it please.

Peace

Altor Wed Jan 13, 2016 11:29am

Quote:

Originally Posted by JRutledge (Post 976452)
All I hope is that we do not have to police this when half of the things said we will not really be paying attention to or understand. There are jokes between schools that it takes awhile for someone not at those schools to understand. Let the AD and Principal deal with this stuff. Keep us out of it please.

This, I agree with. It's the job of the site/school administrators to take care of this. Not the contest officials.

Rob1968 Wed Jan 13, 2016 11:34am

Related matter:
Last week, Women's Varsity game, the background music during warm-ups, which is often played sooo loud, was Rap music, and one of the songs had the "N" word, and other things, as a part of the lyrics. This was at a Charter school, and the principal was there, and was the announcer.
I mentioned to the principal that he/they need to be more aware of the music content . . . he had no idea what was being said in the lyrics! He seemed surprised that I brought it to his attention!
Whether it's the student section, an individual, or the music, there are limits to propriety.

SD Referee Wed Jan 13, 2016 12:23pm

Quote:

Originally Posted by Altor (Post 976449)
Believe me when I say that I've never been part of the "offended" crowd. I'd never suggest to turn off the scoreboard.

Calling an NHL goalkeeper a sieve is one thing. Saying that to a 14-year-old in a high school setting is simply not appropriate. The NFHS and every one of its member organizations tell us to teach/preach sportsmanship to our youth. This is not good sportsmanship.

Kids do that stuff to each other in life, in athletics, in study hall. I honestly don't think this stuff bothers 99% of kids. It's the 1% and the wimpy parents that get all bent out of shape about it.

If we are going to teach sportsmanship and make it a priority, lets start at the college and pro level. Tons of trash talking and rubbing it in the face of your opponent. I don't mind at all, but if we are worried about ridding sports of that stuff, let's start there. Kids see it on TV and think that is the way to go about it.

Amesman Wed Jan 13, 2016 12:53pm

So how do they handle the passive-aggressive type chant that takes sports ribbing in stride?

I speak, of course, of the student-body riposte at some well-to-do schools that takes place when their teams are getting waxed: "That's all right, that's OK, you're going to work for us some day!"

Unsporting?

Raymond Wed Jan 13, 2016 01:16pm

Quote:

Originally Posted by SD Referee (Post 976436)
...

I don't know where some of you soft wimps come from, but it seems like your kind is taking over the world. We can't say anything that even one person might interpret as demeaning. You pick on a kid for one second and you are a bully guilty of bullying. There are already plenty of leagues/sports for youth that don't keep score because Little Johnny or Little Sally might get beat and have their ego ruined for life.
....

My youngest played in one of those leagues (Upward). He has Asperger's and is not mentally focused enough to participate in competitive sports.

I guess the existence of my son and that league offends an accomplished athlete and official such as yourself.

Rich Wed Jan 13, 2016 01:22pm

Quote:

Originally Posted by SD Referee (Post 976436)
So you have a problem with a group of kids calling a goalie a "sieve"? When you are letting a lot of goals get past you, you are indeed a "sieve".

I don't know where some of you soft wimps come from, but it seems like your kind is taking over the world. We can't say anything that even one person might interpret as demeaning. You pick on a kid for one second and you are a bully guilty of bullying. There are already plenty of leagues/sports for youth that don't keep score because Little Johnny or Little Sally might get beat and have their ego ruined for life.

People in this world need to relax, grow a thicker skin, and learn to ignore other people. I'm so tired of the "offended" crowd screaming to get their way.

I know one thing -- it's much easier to put people in certain "buckets" based on responses to threads like these.

Dad Wed Jan 13, 2016 01:25pm

Quote:

Originally Posted by SD Referee (Post 976471)
Kids do that stuff to each other in life, in athletics, in study hall. I honestly don't think this stuff bothers 99% of kids. It's the 1% and the wimpy parents that get all bent out of shape about it.

If we are going to teach sportsmanship and make it a priority, lets start at the college and pro level. Tons of trash talking and rubbing it in the face of your opponent. I don't mind at all, but if we are worried about ridding sports of that stuff, let's start there. Kids see it on TV and think that is the way to go about it.

Plenty of studies having to do with this subject. Had you said 1% you would've been closer.

so cal lurker Wed Jan 13, 2016 01:36pm

Interesting, while at time silly discussion, which (as all such discussions seem to) devolves into reductio ad absurdum.

To me what is appropriate varies dramatically by level. I see little connection between what is appropriate at a high caliber varsity game (young men and women) and at a junior high game (boys and girls) or a 5th grade game (young boys and girls). And I agree (absent unique circumstances that actually disrupt what is happening on the court) they should not be a referee issue, but game management/school officials. (I know in my high school many moons ago, an administrator was always responsible, home or away, at varsity games to make sure we didn't go too far -- and I have seen the same thing in games I have watched now.)

Dad Wed Jan 13, 2016 01:45pm

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Originally Posted by so cal lurker (Post 976488)
Interesting, while at time silly discussion, which (as all such discussions seem to) devolves into reductio ad absurdum.

To me what is appropriate varies dramatically by level. I see little connection between what is appropriate at a high caliber varsity game (young men and women) and at a junior high game (boys and girls) or a 5th grade game (young boys and girls). And I agree (absent unique circumstances that actually disrupt what is happening on the court) they should not be a referee issue, but game management/school officials. (I know in my high school many moons ago, an administrator was always responsible, home or away, at varsity games to make sure we didn't go too far -- and I have seen the same thing in games I have watched now.)

Wisconsin is probably a unique circumstance.

Altor Wed Jan 13, 2016 02:09pm

Quote:

Originally Posted by SD Referee (Post 976471)
Kids do that stuff to each other in life, in athletics, in study hall. I honestly don't think this stuff bothers 99% of kids. It's the 1% and the wimpy parents that get all bent out of shape about it.

If we are going to teach sportsmanship and make it a priority, lets start at the college and pro level. Tons of trash talking and rubbing it in the face of your opponent. I don't mind at all, but if we are worried about ridding sports of that stuff, let's start there. Kids see it on TV and think that is the way to go about it.

We aren't talking about in life or in study hall. We aren't talking about sportsmanship at the college or pro level. The WIAA represents interscholastic athletics in Wisconsin. That's who they are concerned about, and rightfully so.

JRutledge Wed Jan 13, 2016 02:13pm

Quote:

Originally Posted by Altor (Post 976492)
We aren't talking about in life or in study hall. We aren't talking about sportsmanship at the college or pro level. The WIAA represents interscholastic athletics in Wisconsin. That's who they are concerned about, and rightfully so.

I do agree with this statement, but I also hope that they put this in the hands of the administrators of the particular schools.

This to me could all be done without making it public in a news article.

Peace

Altor Wed Jan 13, 2016 02:18pm

And that's exactly what they do. The policy is non-binding and they leave it to the member schools to enforce. The school sent its athletes some of the WIAA's information. An athlete got upset about it and told the WIAA where to go with it. The school suspended her.

There is nothing to see here.

jTheUmp Wed Jan 13, 2016 02:22pm

Quote:

Originally Posted by Altor (Post 976496)
There is nothing to see here.

But it makes good fodder for Daily Internet Outrage.

Rich Wed Jan 13, 2016 03:03pm

Quote:

Originally Posted by JRutledge (Post 976494)
I do agree with this statement, but I also hope that they put this in the hands of the administrators of the particular schools.

This to me could all be done without making it public in a news article.

Peace

My goodness.

The original was an email sent to ADs.

An AD mistakenly forwarded it to student athletes.

The student athlete posted it on Twitter along with profanity.

It was never *intended* to be public.

SD Referee Wed Jan 13, 2016 03:17pm

Quote:

Originally Posted by BadNewsRef (Post 976481)
My youngest played in one of those leagues (Upward). He has Asperger's and is not mentally focused enough to participate in competitive sports.

I guess the existence of my son and that league offends an accomplished athlete and official such as yourself.

Did I say that I was offended or that leagues that cater to individuals like your son shouldn't exist? Oh, I didn't? Glad we got that straightened out.

I was speaking in general about sports leagues, leagues that don't cater to individuals like your son, that don't keep score because they don't want winners and losers. Life has winners and losers and I believe in teaching that right away.

Upward is fine for you and your son and it has its place. I just don't agree with telling our children that everybody wins and that everybody is equal in a regular sports league.

SD Referee Wed Jan 13, 2016 03:21pm

Quote:

Originally Posted by Dad (Post 976487)
Plenty of studies having to do with this subject. Had you said 1% you would've been closer.

So you believe that some innocent chants being done by students are having long term negative effects on kids?

I'm not talking about the ones that go over the line and refer to somebody as fat or some other physical features. I'm talking about calling somebody a "sieve" or other good natured chants.

Dad Wed Jan 13, 2016 03:39pm

Quote:

Originally Posted by SD Referee (Post 976515)
So you believe that some innocent chants being done by students are having long term negative effects on kids?

I'm not talking about the ones that go over the line and refer to somebody as fat or some other physical features. I'm talking about calling somebody a "sieve" or other good natured chants.

Not at all during sporting events. You brought life and study hall into it and I wasn't sure why. I've never heard a chant ever that made me think for a second that an AD needed to deal with it.

In fact, the worst chants I've heard were directed at officials and they just made me laugh.

Raymond Wed Jan 13, 2016 03:40pm

Quote:

Originally Posted by SD Referee (Post 976514)
...I just don't agree with telling our children that everybody wins and that everybody is equal in a regular sports league.

And where in this thread, or the story from Wisconsin, did anybody suggest such a perspective? You made an asinine stereotype of leagues such as Upward, the participants, and their parents when those leagues have nothing to do with this story.

JRutledge Wed Jan 13, 2016 03:46pm

Quote:

Originally Posted by Rich (Post 976511)
My goodness.

The original was an email sent to ADs.

An AD mistakenly forwarded it to student athletes.

The student athlete posted it on Twitter along with profanity.

It was never *intended* to be public.

And this upsets you?

Peace

Rich Wed Jan 13, 2016 04:30pm

Quote:

Originally Posted by JRutledge (Post 976520)
And this upsets you?



Peace


You posted that it was made public in a news article. I explained that it wasn't.

Officials have nothing to do with what was sent out nor in the enforcement of anything.

For the record, I'm fine with the suspension.

JRutledge Wed Jan 13, 2016 04:37pm

Quote:

Originally Posted by Rich (Post 976532)
You posted that it was made public in a news article. I explained that it wasn't.

Officials have nothing to do with what was sent out nor in the enforcement of anything.

For the record, I'm fine with the suspension.

It was made public in the news article.

I also was asking if they would have the officials involved in this, never said that is what the article said. And I was hoping that this issue never came to us in Illinois in this manner. Well if they only keep this with the administrators, but someone is going to get the bright idea and put us in this situation.

And if you mean the kid responding, that is a separate issue. I never even commented about that situation. I think you need to take that fight up with someone else.

Peace

Mark Padgett Wed Jan 13, 2016 06:23pm

Guys - do you think this rule is also intended to cover signs held by fans at the games? Sometimes signs can be somewhat offensive. Of course, sometimes they can be funny. I remember years ago I was watching a UCLA - USC game on television and a UCLA fan in the gym was holding up a sign that said, "FLUSH USED TROJANS". When they showed in on TV, even the announcers were laughing.

frezer11 Wed Jan 13, 2016 07:06pm

Jay Bilas royally trolls Wisconsin’s decision to ban chants at high school games | USA Today High School Sports | USA Today High School Sports

I like some of Jay's new chants. Maybe this thread can be steered in this direction

SD Referee Thu Jan 14, 2016 10:28am

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Originally Posted by Dad (Post 976517)
Not at all during sporting events. You brought life and study hall into it and I wasn't sure why. I've never heard a chant ever that made me think for a second that an AD needed to deal with it.

In fact, the worst chants I've heard were directed at officials and they just made me laugh.

That was my point exactly!!!!!!!

Unless somebody is mooing at cheerleaders or threatening somebody, the chants that are done at games are harmless in my opinion. They are not bad sportsmanship. It is just a bunch of kids being kids and having some fun. It's the PC crowd trying to take over again and I think it's a non issue..........most of the time.

Thanks for the discussion!

SD Referee Thu Jan 14, 2016 10:32am

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Originally Posted by BadNewsRef (Post 976518)
And where in this thread, or the story from Wisconsin, did anybody suggest such a perspective? You made an asinine stereotype of leagues such as Upward, the participants, and their parents when those leagues have nothing to do with this story.

Not once did I specifically mention Upward or anything like it. This discussion went from supposedly unsportsmanlike chants to the PC crowd to not keeping score, etc. etc. Lots of different things touched on in this discussion.

Somewhere along the line, the topic of not keeping score came up. I commented on it as I don't believe in that. Somebody else that has a son that participates in Upward got bent out of shape and put words in my mouth.

Lighten up!

Raymond Thu Jan 14, 2016 10:37am

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Originally Posted by SD Referee (Post 976603)
Not once did I specifically mention Upward or anything like it. This discussion went from supposedly unsportsmanlike chants to the PC crowd to not keeping score, etc. etc. Lots of different things touched on in this discussion.

Somewhere along the line, the topic of not keeping score came up. I commented on it as I don't believe in that. Somebody else that has a son that participates in Upward got bent out of shape and put words in my mouth.

Lighten up!

I quoted exactly what you posted. You're the one ranting and foaming at the mouth about the wussification of America or whatever.

You need to lighten up Francis. If you can't handle the responses to your juvenile proclamations then maybe you need to worry about the wussification happening in your mirror.

Smitty Thu Jan 14, 2016 11:03am

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Originally Posted by BadNewsRef (Post 976604)
I quoted exactly what you posted. You're the one ranting and foaming at the mouth about the wussification of America or whatever.

You need to lighten up Francis. If you can't handle the responses to your juvenile proclamations then maybe you need to worry about the wussification happening in your mirror.

Like.

SD Referee Thu Jan 14, 2016 12:22pm

Quote:

Originally Posted by BadNewsRef (Post 976604)
I quoted exactly what you posted. You're the one ranting and foaming at the mouth about the wussification of America or whatever.

You need to lighten up Francis. If you can't handle the responses to your juvenile proclamations then maybe you need to worry about the wussification happening in your mirror.

I'm not the one that mentioned the Upward league. Somebody else did. That person took what I was saying and applied it to the Upward league. I was talking about sports and life in general. Not a specific league.

Dad Thu Jan 14, 2016 01:30pm

Quote:

Originally Posted by SD Referee (Post 976603)
Not once did I specifically mention Upward or anything like it. This discussion went from supposedly unsportsmanlike chants to the PC crowd to not keeping score, etc. etc. Lots of different things touched on in this discussion.

Somewhere along the line, the topic of not keeping score came up. I commented on it as I don't believe in that. Somebody else that has a son that participates in Upward got bent out of shape and put words in my mouth.

Lighten up!

Youre broad statement was definitely in the ballpark of Upward and leagues like it.

You got caught making a jackass post and now you're attempting, albeit horribly, to back-peddle. If you want people to stop being "wimpy" at the very least don't wimp out with comments like, "Lighten up!"

Adam Thu Jan 14, 2016 04:15pm

Keep it on topic, fellas.

SD Referee Thu Jan 14, 2016 04:28pm

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Originally Posted by Dad (Post 976629)
Youre broad statement was definitely in the ballpark of Upward and leagues like it.

You got caught making a jackass post and now you're attempting, albeit horribly, to back-peddle. If you want people to stop being "wimpy" at the very least don't wimp out with comments like, "Lighten up!"

At the risk of getting off topic AGAIN, I didn't bring up Upward until a dad brought it up. Once it was brought up, I agreed that those leagues have their place. I said that REGULAR sports leagues are not keeping scores and having winners and losers. Reading comprehension!!!!!

I'm not back peddling as I didn't say anything wrong or degrade a particular league or player. Sorry to offend anybody as that was not my intention.

Now back to officiating discussion.

Raymond Thu Jan 14, 2016 04:30pm

Quote:

Originally Posted by SD Referee (Post 976622)
I'm not the one that mentioned the Upward league. Somebody else did. That person took what I was saying and applied it to the Upward league. I was talking about sports and life in general. Not a specific league.


Really? Altor posted this:

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Originally Posted by Altor (Post 976415)
I have the same reaction to things like "sieve" or "A rope, a tree, ..." It's directed to a specific person and is intended to be demeaning (or even a threat). It has no place in high school sports.

"Start the bus up.", "Scoreboard", "C'mon stupid, hit the wall" - those don't bother me in nearly the same way. Although the last one does call a specific player stupid, so I may have to rethink that one.

Your response was this:

Quote:

Originally Posted by SD Referee (Post 976436)
So you have a problem with a group of kids calling a goalie a "sieve"? When you are letting a lot of goals get past you, you are indeed a "sieve".

I don't know where some of you soft wimps come from, but it seems like your kind is taking over the world. We can't say anything that even one person might interpret as demeaning. You pick on a kid for one second and you are a bully guilty of bullying. There are already plenty of leagues/sports for youth that don't keep score because Little Johnny or Little Sally might get beat and have their ego ruined for life.
People in this world need to relax, grow a thicker skin, and learn to ignore other people. I'm so tired of the "offended" crowd screaming to get their way.

That bolded part refers to leagues like Upward, which I (not somebody) brought up. I can see why you don't call T's on coaches since you do not have the integrity to acknowledge what said that is right here in black and white.

The Wisconsin issue has nothing to do with non-scholastic leagues that don't keep score or care who wins. You just felt the need to be a jerk and lump it all in together.


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