Making your Partner feel at ease

[Rog]

Well, your question certainly did invoke some lucid responses didn't it! Perhaps the answer lies somewhere in the void of interaction?
Anyway, you raise a valid issue; but, while being "best buds" is not critical - doing a pre-game with your partner and having some familiarity with there style and approach help immensely.
One of the worst games I felt I've ever done, was with an umpire on the plate who I'd never meet before. He showed up 10 minutes before game time, and I don't believe he ever once looked in my direction, nor did he come out from behind the plate. Now, while I don't think either of us boned any calls. It seemed real evident that we were not in sync with one another. Had I needed help, he had no clue; either by choice, or lack of knowing. (jmo)