Topic for discussion: Handling Situations!

[PeteBooth]

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Originally Posted by Durham

This is the handout that we went through and discussed each point. If there is one that you want to know what the conscience was please ask. It was a great time and the best part was that the class brought up great points and we stayed on track. A few 3rd world things came up, but we answered them quickly and described how we would handle it, but told them that there isn't just one way to do everything, so if they felt better doing something differently, they just need to understand the pro's and con's to doing it that way.

IMO , as with many of these type lists there is one important aspect about umpiring that goes unnoticed and that is:

Have Fun.

Yes, IMO umpiring should be Fun at least for us amateurs. For me umpiring does not pay the mortgage. It is a hobby and one I enjoy.

If you have the mentality that I am having fun and when I do "kick a call" it's not life or death, you will become a better umpire and learn how to handle most situations simply by having a good attitude and do not get "bent out of shape" when the participants complain.

The most important part to learn is Not to get upset or go into "attack mode" when the coach is mad at your call. Let the coach "come to you" .

By that I mean this: Many young umpires when they hear a derogatory comment from the coach (assuming no profanity or the automatic "buzz word") "stop right their tracks" and engage the coach. Now, I simply head to right field (if I am the BU). It's very difficult to argue with yourself. Also, for the most part the coach will not follow as that gives the impression that he is the aggressor.

Then there are the umpires who like the "power" and are simply unapproachable. As umpires we should be approachable.

Do not "hang around" after the game is over as that gets some umpires in trouble as well.

When the game is over it's over. Drop the balls at home plate or toss them to the home coach and GO HOME Do not be rude meaning if someone wants to shake your hand on the way out - Fine but that's it. Greet your partner and go to your car.

Also, if you did have a bad game, simply get into your car and go home or go to a place off the premises where both you and your partner can change.

I know it's a pain in the kneck to drive a car in your Plate gear but it's better then taking abuse etc. as the coach / fans players are exiting as well.

Pete Booth