Defensive Charged Conferences

[tskill]

I had a couple questions was hoping could get some opinions on:

1. Working a FED game with a partner, I'm out in the field, partner behind the dish. Coach wants time to talk with his pitcher. Ok, 1 defensive conference. Now Same inning (it's a long inning), Coach wants time to talk with his pitcher. Ok, 2 defensive conferences. Now SAME inning (it's really a long inning), Coach wants time to talk with his pitcher. Partner says no citing the "making a travesty of the game" clause. Opinions?

2. If you're working out in the field, how do you tell your partner behind the dish he's nuts? Especially if you feel he's wrong on a rule.