1) You can manage and expect more emotion, but this is still unacceptable. Both T's deserved.
2) All you can do is sub in and out properly. If he does/says something stupid I'm not ignoring it just because he's being subbed out.
3) I think it is reasonable to give the coach an explanation if he/she is being reasonable. If you want them to manage the kid and situation effectively they need facts too.
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Coach: Hey ref I'll make sure you can get out of here right after the game!
Me: Thanks, but why the big rush.
Coach: Oh I thought you must have a big date . . .we're not the only ones your planning on F$%&ing tonite are we!
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